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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,574 Ambassador
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    All sounding good apart from the fatigue.
    Mine tis dire at the mo.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    All sounding good apart from the fatigue.
    Mine tis dire at the mo.

    Just wanting to send you :grouphug::grouphug:

    It's so :wall: when you have so much to do but all you want to do is snooze

    Oh to be Mr G the cat, who has snored all evening with a full tum :)

    Better today as I slept through... But now in bed with Eleanor of Aquitaine so will double update tomorrow
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

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  • Bubblesmum
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    Ho, hum.... It wasn't a good day.

    I continued to plod.... And [STRIKE]fight [/STRIKE] my fatigue.

    Spent some time in my office - tring to finish oestopaths accounts- realising yet again information was missing.

    DH arrived home and in deciding what to have for tea .... We ending up having a barny..... I had got some meat out for tea, but was so tired didnt want it, and he DH got frustrated as I didn't know what I wanted.... Well I did a takeaway burger.... Unheard of in this house, and you guessed it, I had nothing in the energy tank, to go out for one. Plus in my heart of hearts I didn't want to spend money on eating out/takeaway.

    I ended up with tinned ravioli on toast, and vimto jelly and ice cream :T:T.

    On reflection.... It was a small meal that was about all my body could cope with.....

    I also managed to work things out with DH rather then stomp off to bed when I just couldn't articulate my needs... Which is what I often do. ( I do thank bake off for me wanting to stay put on the sofa and watch it :o)

    DH was very patient bless him, as along with :eek:of fatigue I worked OT I was ovulating :rotfl: and so on top I was feeling very unbalanced and emotional....

    Evening ended well snuggled on sofa for Bake Off well done Nancy :T and giggled in bed with the lap top playing Extra Slice.... This programme has just been the icing on the cake

    We had the pork last night... So not wasted
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,574 Ambassador
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    So glad all was well in the end :)
    Have a relaxing weekend :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    Evening Diary....

    My excuse PMT and I'm sticking to it ;)

    Well, its been rather slow and I have been plodding but plodding is good I keep telling myself

    Thursday highlights

    Got as far as I could go with osteopaths bookkeeping there's still a bit which needs to be sorted but I can't magic the numbers :mad:

    Saw my counsellor / occupational therapist and acknowledged how my behaviour has changed and talked about how I am going to earn in the future :T:T

    Met my friend re magazine article, was abit :( about the changes she wants me to make.... But I really like her so practised Grace and I enjoyed our conversation....

    Friday Highlights

    A good session of Pilates despite feeling :o

    Had my hair cut - makes me feel so much better - worth adding to my visa at the mo

    Home made Chinese takeaway - well via Mr W - but it still was :money:

    Day 10 for Sober is October - got to say grape juice not to same :D

    Saturday

    Fundraising lunch and theatre for the charity where OH met, ticket paid for months ago, so only cost us arrival soft drinks, and some raffle tickets. It was fab to catch up with friends and the who done it... Was terrific. Professional actors etc......

    Sunday

    Planting daffodil bulbs.... Did I really order this many (over 200 :eek:) only scratched the surface.... Got to pace and then the rain came ....

    Strictly and Donny :iloveyou::iloveyou:

    Today

    Met an ex colleague for costalotta and handed over phone and keys ... Final goodbye :T. It was lovely to see her... And got a goodbye card from my office colleagues

    Budgets and banks this afternoon .......
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    Well its a bit :eek::eek:

    Confession..... I bought two magazines - country living - loved the autumnal features and Prima makes for Christmas

    I had my haircut (wet no blow dry ) and bought make up ( re latter one was a treat lipstick, and one a replacement foundation as used up last bought Sept 2012!)

    Note to self NI still coming out my pocket money account will be repaid by my future income £11.00 per month


    Mrs B overdraft - £440.00
    Halifax Visa - £254.85
    Southwold - £365.00
    Owed to joint - £376.67

    Ok not good but not horrendous

    Still doing 100 day challenge up to Sunday Day 32 - £5.50 a day been thrown at Halifax Visa
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,574 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Plodding is good as long as you are not falling!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Plodding is good as long as you are not falling!

    As the song says I'm still standing :p

    beanielou - hope the cold is feeling better....... And you've had an ok day
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,574 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Ok apart from some eejit woman bumped into me & I fell over~bah is all :(
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Ok apart from some eejit woman bumped into me & I fell over~bah is all :(

    I often think, they people have know idea - the consequences of them trying to get from A to B so fast they leave devastation - sending :grouphug:
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
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