I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

DUTR

Top_Girl wrote: »

*Should this whole thread not be BS*


Yeah, you were definitely special.

Someone who is willing to have you at her children's home the first night you meet and bed you there within hours, despite you having binned her off three times previously sounds selective when it comes to 'relationships'...

TG, there are people like that on POF :eek:

Top_Girl

DUTR wrote: »

TG, there are people like that on POF :eek:

I bet they're riddled as well :eek:

DUTR

Top_Girl wrote: »

I bet they're riddled as well :eek:

heh heh , I don't know, (even I have my standards) but you can tell from reading the profiles that there are guys out there only looking for one thing and 'ladies' who may just want to be wined and dined then all the others in between, I do recall one contact admitting she was married and if I would do the deed so her husband can watch :eek:
Also whilst looks are not everything, there are some of both genders that are just never really going to cop off in a bar.
I just call it a catologue now.
One came through yesterday, said she had been in a relationship 23 years and within about 8 messages was passing on her number and asking to meet, shallow as I am, she wasn't attractive enough (to me) to travel 60 miles each way at the price of super unleaded plus she would have had to pay for the meal once I arrived which I suspect she may not have been able to, but all done from the comfort of the pc or smartphone app

Top_Girl

DUTR wrote: »

heh heh , I don't know, (even I have my standards) but you can tell from reading the profiles that there are guys out there only looking for one thing and 'ladies' who may just want to be wined and dined then all the others in between, I do recall one contact admitting she was married and if I would do the deed so her husband can watch :eek:
Also whilst looks are not everything, there are some of both genders that are just never really going to cop off in a bar.
I just call it a catologue now.
One came through yesterday, said she had been in a relationship 23 years and within about 8 messages was passing on her number and asking to meet, shallow as I am, she wasn't attractive enough (to me) to travel 60 miles each way at the price of super unleaded plus she would have had to pay for the meal once I arrived which I suspect she may not have been able to, but all done from the comfort of the pc or smartphone app

OP better hope he's not bought now to pay later then :rotfl:

I'm no good at all this booty calling and internet dating etc, I can't even date more than one person at any given time, it's just not something I'm comfortable with.

Each to their own and all that, but surely there's no excuse not to be safe, not in this day and age.

DUTR

Top_Girl wrote: »

OP better hope he's not bought now to pay later then :rotfl:

I'm no good at all this booty calling and internet dating etc, I can't even date more than one person at any given time, it's just not something I'm comfortable with.

Each to their own and all that, but surely there's no excuse not to be safe, not in this day and age.

Indeed, although it's not to say what the real arrangements were between the OP and his 'friend'.

Tropez

My advice is that you just need to relax.

It doesn't matter how many previous owners your inflatable friend has, she isn't going to be too fussy, or judgemental or anything else so you needn't worry. Just make sure you have some tape ready in case she splits in the wrong place.

Also, stop calling your garage her home. It's a little on the creepy side.

kingslayer

Notsosharp wrote: »

I smell a troll

I haven't been trolling. I am speaking the truth.

loulou_lemon

I agree with Tropez, your lady friend has just let herself down.

dandelionclock30

Well you sound very immature if its not a wind up.
I think its a wind up because nobody says Jonny since the 1980s, which most likley makes you someone in their 40s.
Have you considered going on Jeremy Kyle?

kingslayer

duchy wrote: »

So she lives so far away that there was nowhere to meet like a pub ....yet you hadn't left home at 6pm and between then and 11 pm you met someone for the first time , had an unprotected shag and came home....from this supposedly difficult to get to location.

She made no suggestion that you used protection either

Okaaaaaaaaaaaay

Why are people talking about 11pm? I got there about 9:30pm and i stayed the night.

Look, I don't know why she didn't suggest it. I am now getting paranoid. I have been speaking to this woman for a couple months now and I really don't know her at all.

Yes, I should have brought protection, I was stupid not to have, but I wasn't certain if sex was even going to happen so I didn't bother.