I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

DKLS

Based on my old granddads advice:

Don't go out with a loaded gun
If your not in bed by midnight go home

But overall stop thinking like a woman and overdoing it.

pinkduvetdiva

How did it go, OP?

burnoutbabe

it still sounds like she just wanted a booty call, else why meet for the first time at your own house? goes against all normal dating advice.

Lily-Rose_3

I can't believe that this woman seriously wanted to have another date with you when you cancelled three times before! She must be desperate! Also, if she was that interested, surely she would have come to pick you up.

A middle aged woman dating a man virtually half her age who has no car, and keeps cancelling on her? Wow, she must be on cloud nine! And I agree with burnout babe, that she must be just fancying a sh*g.

So, did you actually bother to go on the arduous journey to meet her?

Free_Spirit_31

burnoutbabe wrote: »

it still sounds like she just wanted a booty call, else why meet for the first time at your own house? goes against all normal dating advice.

I agree, I had a friend who just picked up men on the internet and said that the first date would be at her house. So the men knew that sex was on the cards. I dropped said friend because she had the morals of an alleycat.

kingslayer

burnoutbabe wrote: »

it still sounds like she just wanted a booty call, else why meet for the first time at your own house? goes against all normal dating advice.

It kind of was a casual one nighter. I think she wants something more serious though. It is just that we've been speaking for quite a while and maybe she trusts me, I don't know. I messed up and didn't wear a jonny though!

74jax

kingslayer wrote: »

It kind of was a casual one nighter. I think she wants something more serious though. It is just that we've been speaking for quite a while and maybe she trusts me, I don't know. I messed up and didn't wear a jonny though!

Is this a joke?

Takeaway_Addict

DKLS wrote: »

Based on my old granddads advice:

Don't go out with a loaded gun
If your not in bed by midnight go home

But overall stop thinking like a woman and overdoing it.

Ah ha ha ha ha excellent

Takeaway_Addict

kingslayer wrote: »

It kind of was a casual one nighter. I think she wants something more serious though. It is just that we've been speaking for quite a while and maybe she trusts me, I don't know. I messed up and didn't wear a jonny though!

You're an idiot...

Goldiegirl

kingslayer wrote: »

It kind of was a casual one nighter. I think she wants something more serious though. It is just that we've been speaking for quite a while and maybe she trusts me, I don't know. I messed up and didn't wear a jonny though!

You both sound completely charming.