I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

BigAunty

There are lots of women with children and good house-keeping skills who have STDs including AIDs. People can carry them for years so recent celibacy offers no protection.

I call BS on this poster, too. We get loads of posts about their social anxiety and lack of social skills yet suddenly they regard themselves as a stud who is immune to disease?

Heffi1

You are clearly far too young to be entering into an intimate relationship (one night stand or other) if you do not think about your own sexual health, do not ask questions of your new partner, have they been checked for STIs, because having 1, 2, 3, or even 20 kids does not mean they get no time for a bunk up as you have just experienced yourself.

Go straight to your local GUM clinic and get checked out, do not pass on anything to anyone else.

Never mind about the prospect of pregnancy, that is far down your list of priorities at this moment.

Oh and one more thing, Grow up and take responsibility for the mess you have made.


* disclaimer, this is probably a wind up, but just in case it is not, the above advice stands.

aggypanthus

:rotfl:

the comments on here have set me up for the day!

I agree sbout the use of !!!!!!, this man is clearly a J kyle candidate.

lifeisgood

kingslayer wrote: »

It's not just that but she lives in the middle of nowhere and I'm spending quite a bit on public transport to get there as I don't have a car. It's just a bit of a headache to get to her place. I dp want to meet her and going to her place is ideal for me and my anxiety, but it's just the nuisance of getting there.

Could you possibly PM me the area where she lives? It would be my dream to live in the middle of nowhere but be able to get home by public transport late at night.

Notsosharp

Nikkisun wrote: »

I call bullsh!t

I smell a troll

DUTR

kingslayer wrote: »

I didn't have time to get any ( I know that's a poor excuse) but yeah I was a bit idiotic, though we were caught up in the moment. I don't think she's going to have any stds, though, as she hardly gets any time to f**k other people due to housekeeping and looking after her three daughters.

Notsosharp wrote: »

I smell a troll

I do too, however the poster does raise some valid points, not everyone wants to or can get to the pub or clubs or any other social event to meet people, and which ever gender both have needs.

Person_one

Nikkisun wrote: »

I call bullsh!t

Yeah, when did you last hear anybody say 'Jonny' for condom anyway? :rotfl:

Have GCSE exams finished?

Georgiegirl256

Person_one wrote: »

Yeah, when did you last hear anybody say 'Jonny' for condom anyway? :rotfl:

Have GCSE exams finished?

I haven't heard them being called that for years!

duchy

So she lives so far away that there was nowhere to meet like a pub ....yet you hadn't left home at 6pm and between then and 11 pm you met someone for the first time , had an unprotected shag and came home....from this supposedly difficult to get to location.

She made no suggestion that you used protection either

Okaaaaaaaaaaaay

Top_Girl

kingslayer wrote: »

I didn't have time to get any ( I know that's a poor excuse) but yeah I was a bit idiotic, though we were caught up in the moment. I don't think she's going to have any stds, though, as she hardly gets any time to f**k other people due to housekeeping and looking after her three daughters.

*Should this whole thread not be BS*


Yeah, you were definitely special.

Someone who is willing to have you at her children's home the first night you meet and bed you there within hours, despite you having binned her off three times previously sounds selective when it comes to 'relationships'...