a fool in love

marisco_2

4given wrote: »

I have started to feel so guilty and have tried to end it but without success.

This guy is treating his wife, the one person who he should love most, and behave with total integrity toward above anyone else, with utter contempt. Fact is if he wasn't messing about behind her back banging you, he would be with some other woman.

Ask yourself this next time you fail to end such a torrid connection without success. Why do you place so little value upon yourself, that you would even consider sharing the person you are in a relationship with, by getting involved with a married man? Have some respect for yourself and end it is my advice.

Pollycat

4given wrote: »

Thanks Fbaby I have ignored him and blocked him although he managed to sent me an email(junk) I was thinking of posting it here but because of some.......... maybe I shouldn't.

Please don't post his email on here.

That would be beyond sleazy. (nearest to a vomiting smiley I could find)

I can't speak for other posters but I certainly wouldn't want to read what this guy has written to you hoping to persuade you to carry on your sordid little affair.

4given

Pollycat wrote: »

Please don't post his email on here.

That would be beyond sleazy. (nearest to a vomiting smiley I could find)

I can't speak for other posters but I certainly wouldn't want to read what this guy has written to you hoping to persuade you to carry on your sordid little affair.

Oops I already have,if u read it he wasn't't trying to persuade me anything.

Poppie68

After reading this thread over the last couple of days i have fought my twitchty but as you can see i have lost that battle...
I have to say it OP but women that start relationships with another womans husband are nearly the lowest of the low...the lowest being the scumbag husbands that betray their families
It's ok having a conscience now but did you think about his wife and kids while you were having your sordid meetings, to him you are just an easy l*y and someone he can use. I hope his wife does find out because otherwise she will be living a lie and i bet she deserves better than that.
Woman that sleep with another womans husband should be made to wear a scarlet sash with the words....i'm a person with no morales i steal husbands.
The cheating scum of the husbands should be turned into eunuchs or Ladyboys!

victory

4given wrote: »

[QUOTE=Quizzic
Thanks I like your poster, now I have ended it,it's still early days but I will be strong( lol sounds like a song)

It's not funny your situation though is it?

Pollycat

4given wrote: »

Oops I already have,if u read it he wasn't't trying to persuade me anything.

No you haven't posted the email (thankfully).

Or if you did, other members of MSE must have reported your post & got it deleted. :T

As I said "beyond sleazy".

4given

Pollycat wrote: »

No you haven't posted the email (thankfully).

Or if you did, other members of MSE must have reported your post & got it deleted. :T

As I said "beyond sleazy".

Why would it get deleted I only quoted what he said nothing controversial. Those who read and replied did so accordingly

Pollycat

4given wrote: »

Why would it get deleted I only quoted what he said nothing controversial. Those who read and replied did so accordingly

You said (in post #126 posted at 5:55pm yesterday):

4given wrote: »

Thanks Fbaby I have ignored him and blocked him although he managed to sent me an email(junk) I was thinking of posting it here but because of some.......... maybe I shouldn't.

You were thinking of posting the email but thought maybe you shouldn't.

So, at 5:55pm yesterday, you had not posted the contents of the email.

These are the only posts you have made since:

4given wrote: »

:j:T,fine by me ,thanks I was not trying to be aggressive I appreciate your views as much.if u read the replies some posters have posted yes they have been harsh but helpful as well.Just being rude to me is not going to change anything.U could call me all the names u want but it won't change a thing,people like Fbaby,Duchy,Bucks lady,Tricky wicky etc have told me the truth "I did wrong" without resorting to childish insults.Once again thanks for your input.

4given wrote: »

Quizzical_Squirrel wrote:

Thanks I like your poster, now I have ended it,it's still early days but I will be strong( lol sounds like a song)

4given wrote: »

Oops I already have,if u read it he wasn't't trying to persuade me anything.

4given wrote: »

Why would it get deleted I only quoted what he said nothing controversial. Those who read and replied did so accordingly

So where are the posts from other members commenting on this alleged post from you containing this alleged email?

You are deluded.

I believe you are living in a fantasy land.

I sincerely hope you are because it would mean that there isn't a wife somewhere who is unaware that another woman has been shagging her husband.

Have you had a STD test, BTW?

Oh - and there's little point in deleting your first post (for 'privacy', FHS :rotfl: ) because somebody has quoted it in post #4.

Morglin

4given wrote: »

Why would it get deleted I only quoted what he said nothing controversial. Those who read and replied did so accordingly

To be honest, I would ask for this thread to be locked - I don't know whether you are on the level or not, but, if you are, you have had opinions from a lot of people, but, it's up to you what you do next.

Lin

duchy

FBaby wrote: »

However, despite my views on affairs, I have the opposite experience to the above quote: the people I think of who had affairs have left their partner for the person they cheated with and haven't cheated again. I don't think it is black and white as people cheat for different reasons and it is these reasons that are indicators of the chances of cheating again rather than the cheating itself.

Or more cynically the cheater has got better at not getting caught :eek: