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  • 4given
    4given Posts: 32 Forumite
    VestanPance wrote: »
    Any bloke would be well worth staying away from her if she's happy to jump into bed with a married man.

    Affairs don't just happen. People make a conscious decision to have an affair and it tells you a hell of a lot about their morals and personality.
    lol u are funny:rotfl:
  • Pollycat
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    4given wrote: »
    lol u are funny:rotfl:

    I think you're the only one who finds it funny, love.
  • Morglin
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    VestanPance wrote: »
    Any bloke would be well worth staying away from her if she's happy to jump into bed with a married man.

    Affairs don't just happen. People make a conscious decision to have an affair and it tells you a hell of a lot about their morals and personality.

    Yeah, but only if they tell you....:whistle:

    Bloody hell, I am glad I am finally too old to have to go through all this......:rotfl:

    Lin ;)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • Morglin
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    Pollycat wrote: »
    I think you're the only one who finds it funny, love.


    You are right - I just find it a bit odd that a bloke would be worrying about what went before.......:eek:

    Insecure blokes are as harmful as married blokes....:doh:

    Lin ;)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Morglin wrote: »
    You are right - I just find it a bit odd that a bloke would be worrying about what went before.......:eek:

    Seriously? I wouldn't go anywhere near someone who's either had an affair or knowingly been party to one (ie. the OW). Yes you can argue that it's in the past but it says a lot about someone's lack of respect, morals and integrity - not someone I'd want to get involved with.
  • catkins
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    Morglin wrote: »
    No, I am not (seriously) but we all make mistakes, through life, in various ways, and the OP has really been trashed, although, again, the only one committing adultery is the husband!

    I think perhaps there is some personal baggage with some posters, going on here.

    Lin :)



    No personal baggage for me. I have never cheated nor been cheated on. I just think affairs are wrong.
    Morglin wrote: »
    Oh, well, actions in life are either a mistake or not - I would think that getting involved with a bloke, tied to another woman, is a bit of a mistake.

    But, maybe not then.

    Lin :)


    No, to me a mistake is not knowingly sleeping with someone you know is married. A mistake is doing something without thinking. If someone really sleeps with a married person without thinking about it even for 1 second then they are a total moron with no morals
    The world is over 4 billion years old and yet you somehow managed to exist at the same time as David Bowie
  • Morglin
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    catkins wrote: »
    No personal baggage for me. I have never cheated nor been cheated on. I just think affairs are wrong.




    No, to me a mistake is not knowingly sleeping with someone you know is married. A mistake is doing something without thinking. If someone really sleeps with a married person without thinking about it even for 1 second then they are a total moron with no morals

    Well, your view, and that's fine.....my view is we either do things that are positive, or things that are negative (a mistake), and we learn from both.

    But, might be my age talking lol

    Lin ;)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • Morglin
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    edited 17 June 2014 at 4:26PM
    tea_lover wrote: »
    Seriously? I wouldn't go anywhere near someone who's either had an affair or knowingly been party to one (ie. the OW). Yes you can argue that it's in the past but it says a lot about someone's lack of respect, morals and integrity - not someone I'd want to get involved with.

    There was a thread on here recently about 'past loves' and the overwhelming consensus, was to either keep it secret or not worry about what future partners thought!

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4981681


    Lin ;)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • Seanymph
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    that thread was 'how many past loves'.

    I get about not naming figures.

    But one of the things that reassured me about my husband when we got together was his faithful, 18 year history with his first wife.

    I liked that about him.

    I would not have liked it had he said he'd had affairs. Because if I was to hitch my waggon to his particular engine I want to know that he can do relationships....
  • Morglin
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    You might be right - I have not really asked my DH what went before (although I know a 30 year plus marriage did).

    Not really interested in anything else, to be honest.

    What went before doesn't concern me.

    Lin :)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
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