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Who's eating my lunch????

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  • sulkisu
    sulkisu Posts: 1,285 Forumite
    edited 28 May 2014 at 7:50PM
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    I spoke to my boss today about what's been going on as I couldn't concertrate all day and HR wasn't in so nothing could get done. Once again my whole lunch was taken :( . I really thought I would catch the person today as my friend rigged up a small tub of pringles so when the lid gets removed it plays music but I heard nothing as they took the blooming lot.

    My boss said I must let him know anytime I leave my desk tomorrow and he'll watch the fridge. Fingers crossed they get caught soon.

    It's sounds stupid but I've found myself getting low, distant and scared when I look at my co-workers as I don't know who to trust or if someone is going to try and seriously harm me.

    I've spent hours thinking of every individual I work with to see if I can think of a reason why someone's targeting me and I keep coming up with nothing.



    It doesn't sound stupid at all. I must admit that when I read the first few posts, I thought 'cheeky git' but had a bit of a smile. Reading on, it sounds almost sinister and I'm not surprised that you feel distant and scared - especially as it is only happeneing to you. You are being targeted, harassed and bullied. I admire your restraint, because I would be have shown my !!!! already. HR really need to pull their finger out.
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    Did he buy you lunch?

    No he sent me home early because I was a mess. I couldn't hold it together the tears wouldn't stop flowing.
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    No he sent me home early because I was a mess. I couldn't hold it together the tears wouldn't stop flowing.

    I'm losing my !!!! over this, its making so angry. Lets hope they're caught tomorrow. Who would be so brazen to do it again!??
  • Have a wee ( ( (hug) ) ) Yvonne. Are you going into work tomorrow?
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    Have a wee ( ( (hug) ) ) Yvonne. Are you going into work tomorrow?

    I will be going in because the only person I will be letting down is myself if I don't. I have to try and ride this one out and find out who's doing this to me.
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    No he sent me home early because I was a mess. I couldn't hold it together the tears wouldn't stop flowing.

    Well, that's something.

    I actually hope he doesn't mention it now so the culprit gets caught.

    Can you take a spare lunch just for tomorrow so the wretched their takes the dummy lunch and your better one is there for you to eat?
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    Well, that's something.

    I actually hope he doesn't mention it now so the culprit gets caught.

    Can you take a spare lunch just for tomorrow so the wretched their takes the dummy lunch and your better one is there for you to eat?

    I'm going to take in a cucumber sandwich tomorrow :(
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • How many people work in your office Yvonne? Im assuming its quite a lot, seeing as they're able to hide the evidence.
  • Just another thought - your lunch and bits and bobs aren't going in the bin are they?
  • mrssaver_2
    mrssaver_2 Posts: 50 Forumite
    Oh Yvonne, please do not let this idiot crush your spirit, go into work tomorrow with your head held high and don't give him/her the satisfaction of knowing that they have upset you. Go in knowing that he/she will finally be found out. Hugs
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