Heartbroken - just need to talk

purpleshoes_2

Robinette wrote: »

Perhaps she has moved on and does not want to revisit this thread. Hopefully she is in a good place, feeling happy and contented.

Agreed, but I was in regular contact with her until around 3 weeks ago and despite a couple of emails asking her to let me know how she is, nothing. Which isnt like her. I know she could be away on holiday, but I am concerned that shes just dropped off the radar and hasnt updated her other positive thread on here either.

Robinette

purpleshoes wrote: »

Agreed, but I was in regular contact with her until around 3 weeks ago and despite a couple of emails asking her to let me know how she is, nothing. Which isnt like her. I know she could be away on holiday, but I am concerned that shes just dropped off the radar and hasnt updated her other positive thread on here either.

That is strange. Everybody has the right to privacy, but it would be good to know that she is ok. Is anybody else in touch with her?

purpleshoes_2

Robinette wrote: »

That is strange. Everybody has the right to privacy, but it would be good to know that she is ok. Is anybody else in touch with her?

I was in touch with her on an almost daily basis, but then was offline myself for a few days because of some quite serious family stuff, I emailed her and explained, Ive emailed her a couple of times since.

But nothing. I hope she is ok, even if she has gone back to the guy in question (which Im not assuming she has), just wasnt expecting her to drop off the radar like that.

Im sure shes in touch with a few people so maybe someone has heard from her lately.

imho

But didnt she say she was taking a break from the internet? I like to think she has gone on the holiday with a friend and is enjoying herself.

purpleshoes_2

Its been about 5 weeks since I heard from her. I am concerned about her, not that I think anything bad has happened to her, but what happened with this guy hit her hard and its really not like her to be offline for so long.

lostinrates

purpleshoes wrote: »

Its been about 5 weeks since I heard from her. I am concerned about her, not that I think anything bad has happened to her, but what happened with this guy hit her hard and its really not like her to be offline for so long.

Some people were rather harsh about her posting here I felt.

I was intact with her off forum for. Brief time, but unfortunately I had to take time out myself over a pressing personal issue which I feel very bad about. I feel a bit as if 'another' person let her down.

CH27

lostinrates wrote: »

Some people were rather harsh about her posting here I felt.

I was intact with her off forum for. Brief time, but unfortunately I had to take time out myself over a pressing personal issue which I feel very bad about. I feel a bit as if 'another' person let her down.

Please don't feel bad. You're lovely & caring but you can always be around.

Georgiegirl256

lostinrates wrote: »

Some people were rather harsh about her posting here I felt.

I was intact with her off forum for. Brief time, but unfortunately I had to take time out myself over a pressing personal issue which I feel very bad about. I feel a bit as if 'another' person let her down.

Don't feel bad. You haven't let her down at all. You had enough on your plate not so long back.

Maybe she has gone back to that guy (which if course is entirely her choice), but because of this thread, she's maybe too embarrassed to say as she knows people will say she's done the wrong thing? Or, she maybe just wants a break from the internet?

It does seem strange though? I hope she's ok?

lostinrates

Yes, it was at that time exactly.

purpleshoes_2

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

Don't feel bad. You haven't let her down at all. You had enough on your plate not so long back.

Maybe she has gone back to that guy (which if course is entirely her choice), but because of this thread, she's maybe too embarrassed to say as she knows people will say she's done the wrong thing? Or, she maybe just wants a break from the internet?

It does seem strange though? I hope she's ok?

It crossed my mind that she may have gone back to him. I was offline for a few days due to stuff that happened to a family member of mine, which the OP was aware of because I had told her things were difficult, but they went through some really tough times and I wasnt online for 3 or 4 days, when I emailed the OP again to see how she was, which was as soon as things calmed down a few days later, no response.

Until then we had been in regular contact, several emails a day, Ive contacted her twice to ask if shes ok, but no response.

If she is reading this, I hope she is ok.