Heartbroken - just need to talk

duchy

Either he jumped in too fast and is panicking or he's one of those guys who loves the excitement of early days but isn't a long-hauler .....or there's something else going on in his life. All of those things though are no reflection on you - and even if it is one of the nicer reasons-it will be right person - wrong time.

Yes your heart will heal -and you'll move forward -it just takes time- painful to go through but you will come through - a little sadder , alittle wiser and even stronger. Ready for the next part of the adventure ! (and another frog closer to your prince )

System

Have some chocolate too.

Tayforth.... his actions didn't quite match up with his words did they?

You deserve better.

teawithmilk

Oh Tay, Im so sorry. 2/3 months is an awful length of time as you must have started to trust him and open up after your horrible year.

I cant really say anything to make you feel better, Im rubbish at that type of thing, but please have a hug!

(((Tayforth)))

spirit

Tayforth, I am so sorry to hear you are feeling like this - hugs :A

However, I read a post you put on someone else's thread about the effects of head injury and that he'd been acting strangely since then?

Do you think this is related? I can't believe someone could blow hot and cold so soon.

mgdavid

dump him.
You are worth better.
Much better.

Gavin83

duchy wrote: »

Either he jumped in too fast and is panicking or he's one of those guys who loves the excitement of early days but isn't a long-hauler .....or there's something else going on in his life. All of those things though are no reflection on you - and even if it is one of the nicer reasons-it will be right person - wrong time.

I assume he's one of them guys who says or does anything it takes in order to have sex with a woman and then once it happens they move on. Typically known as a user. Really not a nice way to treat people but I guess it happens.

Tayforth, I'm sure you'll meet someone more appropriate soon, you seem like a lovely girl on here and I'm sure you come across the same in person. Keep your chin up and try not to let it bother you too much.

Where do you live in the country? Are there opportunities to meet people in your area?

NinjaSavingKat

Any chance he is "might" be married?

System

Gavin83 wrote: »

I assume he's one of them guys who says or does anything it takes in order to have sex with a woman and then once it happens they move on.

Or says what it takes. Thankfully ive been spared all that.

tayforth

Thank you all so much. I've had to come to the loos to read your kind comments, they've brought tears to my eyes.

whitewing wrote: »

It will get better, whatever happens.

Thanks, whitewing.

Judi wrote: »

Have some chocolate too.

Tayforth.... his actions didn't quite match up with his words did they?

You deserve better.

No, I suppose they didn't. Well, they did at first, but not in the last couple of weeks or so.

fivetide wrote: »

Good Scots saying here "Whits fer ye will no go by ye" basically things will be right one way or the other.

Hope you get a definate answer one way or another though. It sounds like the limbo situation is the worst of it.

Yes, I do feel as if I'm in limbo at the minute. But my gut instinct tells me that something's wrong.

susieq87

i think you need to talk to him and find out because theres no point in feeling like this then just as you are getting better you break up and feel this again. find out whats going on, get out of limbo and know that you're on a definite path to getting over him.