talk me down please

meritaten

he probably realises who is the one who is going to 'defend' him. Smart cat!
He is probably feeling grief and needs cuddles and loves. was MIL a 'softy' with him?

mellymoo74

On the quiet yes but in public the phrase bloody cat was used alot got pics

mellymoo74

System

I'm sorry i am late in offering my condolences, i'm very sorry for your and OH's loss and what you are going though right now

i think someone else mentioned it but dreamies do seem like crack for cats, bf's kittie loves them as a treat.

mellymoo74

wannabe_sybil

What a gorgeous cat! I am currently not owned by a cat and I really miss it.

Now it's the slog past the funeral and the house clearance. Fingers crossed, you all keep your heads down, cuddle that awesomely handsome cat and get through this and upward.

I am suggesting that your OH still gets support where he can from the professionals. This is where his healing starts. I also think he is very lucky to have you.

mellymoo74

Thank you. Amazing what a lovely boy cuddle does for mood.
Off to give him breakfast and a love.

I feel ok. OH doesn't seem to bad at the min psychologist again next week which is good.

mellymoo74

Nice nephew spoke to OH whilst we were there, other way you can tell he's a good kid first question how's Mr T Cat?

mellymoo74

Cos I don't have enough on HSE have turned up at work to do a spot check that I know we will fail.
Lots of expletives

mellymoo74

And a notice has been served. Woohoo not even slightly in the mood for this.