talk me down please

meritaten

will PM you then melly and explain the process.

mellymoo74

Just had a lovely message from Mr Grinch. He loves me and has said to stop beating myself up about driving today. He misses me and his mum just had a lucid patch where she told him to keep hold of me I was a good one.

Crying

mellymoo74

And I'm still awake.

mellymoo74

Still awake. Very clean kitchen and bathroom though

atolaas

I wish I could reach in through my computer screen and give you a big hug! I can't offer any help or practical advice, but I'm always good for a hug

mellymoo74

I went over really early, rubbed cream in MIL hands went sleep at 7ish and er got up now,OH came home with me and is still sleeping

Mojisola

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Just had a lovely message from Mr Grinch.

He loves me and has said to stop beating myself up about driving today.

He misses me and his mum just had a lucid patch where she told him to keep hold of me I was a good one.

Comments like this make up for a lot of the stress and anxiety the rest of the family have caused you both. :T

mellymoo74

OH said she was saying no one else is bothered about her hands and feet (her skins now really thin and cracking so I've been massaging calendula cream into it to try and help) she also let slip that SIL has kicked off about the bracelet but MIL (who may not have treated my OH as well as she should have, but is far from blind) has told her the difference is I'm wearing what she gave me, it hadn't been sold before she's even dead.

Pain was bad last night OH tells me. She cried alot.

elona

melly

With really bad cracking skin on hands and feet - cream rubbed in - then clingfilm or poly bag - then gloves or socks on top- can work really well.

mellymoo74

Halo slipped again. I need to get calm not helping OH.

Had to leave before I erupted, OH asked about the cat(checking nothing been sorted) !!!!! said he'd have to get used to being outside.

Don't worry he won't he's coming here