talk me down please

mellymoo74

Concentrating on NVQ today.
Spoke to OH when he got back told him I'm getting NVQ salary goes up by 10k, we are saving then buying a house in Staffordshire he got excited about it, he was surprised that I said it would be in both our names he's so beaten down he thought that something that normal was an especially nice thing.

Gingernutty

It sounds like you're having a screaming nightmare mellymoo74.

It also sounds as if your MIL is reaping what she's sown over the years.

Karma really is a b!tch....

Hugs to you and your OH, it sounds like you need all the moral support you can get.

mellymoo74

Mil is going back into hospital tonight no hospice beds.
She calmed down whilst OH was there went to sleep on his shoulder.
Not long I don't think.

We will be up at the hospital tomorrow it will hopefully make it easier to see her.

mellymoo74

Nice nephew has cut contact
Have emailed him to say am disappointed and wish him well.

Really upset

wannabe_sybil

Sending hugs. The nice nephew may come to his senses later. It is a hothouse for everyone's emotions at the moment.

Take care of yourself. You are at the end of this road.

meritaten

nice nephew may have cut contact with everyone melly - perhaps he cant cope?

mellymoo74

I think finding her stuff gone finished her off.

And possibly Meri I think it's more his mother has said she won't speak to him again if he has contact tho

meritaten

mellymoo74 wrote: »

I think finding her stuff gone finished her off.

And possibly Meri I think it's more his mother has said she won't speak to him again if he has contact tho

Then I cant blame him for that - she IS his mother after all.


its probably not so much the stuff itself being gone - but she must feel hugely betrayed. Poor Cow!

mellymoo74

That's why I have said disappointed, not angry, not surprised just disappointed and wish him well.

She was crying yesterday and today she was doing the gasping just wanted OH.

meritaten

Well that's a turnaround melly! wanting OH I mean - has the stupid woman finally realised that she had a an absolute gem in him?