talk me down please

meritaten

oh melly, I didn't mean to make you cry! but, I hope a good cry did you good!
glad you are going to see the doc (when you can get appointment).

stay strong and stay well, and be mindful of your own health when dealing with the 'toxic twosome'!

mellymoo74

meritaten wrote: »

oh melly, I didn't mean to make you cry! but, I hope a good cry did you good!
glad you are going to see the doc (when you can get appointment).

stay strong and stay well, and be mindful of your own health when dealing with the 'toxic twosome'!

It's ok Meri you know how it is when your overtired I am a pathetic mess currently.
Nephew (26) just called OH in a mess so he's on his way there with my blessing. We will make sure the kids are ok (yes I know their adults but like my brothers they will be forever children)
I am fairly sure that tomorrow will be back on nursing duty and my lovely quiet just me OH the dogs and tons of food christmas day is now nursing and cooking for 12. (Hope they have a turkey big enough mine isnt)

OHs auntie has got me lots of prezzies and put 40 squid in my card so she's trying to get some of the fortune I spent back to me I think.

Going to try and sleep the tramadol I have for migraine are starting to look good cos they will knock me out.

mellymoo74

Hopefully the tramadol will kick in and I will get over.2 hours sleep.
I'm pondering pepping myself up by having my hair and eyebrows done if I an get in somewhere tomorrow make myself look less bleurgh

mellymoo74

Got 3 hours so a small improvement.

Oldest nephew had got himself into a state because of her discharging herself he had been on Google so despite SIL and MIL not telling him anything he's a good idea of the prognosis, He keeps trying to help bless him but they're blocking him and it's really upsetting him OH was with him and his wife for 4 hours and on the phone for 2 (nephew had had a drink so it was messy)

Can't decide whether to try and get in to have some beautifying done as I am sort of sitting staring into space due to tiredness.

Turned phone ringers off going to let OH sleep he needs it.

mellymoo74

So been in about an hour OH is fast asleep spent the day cooking for 12. And nursing spending some time with the dogs even my stand offish boy is on my lap.

This level of care can't go on OH is in pain I am shattered and coming down with something.

Not all doom and gloom OH loved his torque bangle and I love my garmin vivofit
Hope you're all ok and had a good day

mellymoo74

Still awake fabbie.

I am having the christmas I should have had today and if anyone has anything to say i will sneeze on them, have had a lemsip as I am coming down with a crappie cold.

mellymoo74

I have collapsed OH has now got my cold. I am on couch under blanket with concerned dog. Have answered the phone and been told that I am selfish ringer off lemsip had not moving

purpleshoes_2

mellymoo74 wrote: »

I have collapsed OH has now got my cold. I am on couch under blanket with concerned dog. Have answered the phone and been told that I am selfish ringer off lemsip had not moving

You really need to do something to get yourself out of this situation, its toxic. Clearly affecting your health as well.

mellymoo74

Going to be horrible now. Section of it will be over soon enough only worry is the niece care.

mellymoo74

SIL back in hospital. Nephew 1 was having a party tomorrow he was going to cancel I have told him not too and said we will come.
Nephew 2 !!!!!!ed off Christmas day aft to Cornwall poor sod he really needs to escape.
I am going to have my eyebrows done tomorrow need to try and get my hair done will make me feel better.
Just walked their dog home with my two now OH and niece at the hospital. I have a docs appointment on Friday.