Depression Support Thread

juno

CCStar wrote: »

I don't feel bad but am fed up with trying to be helpful, getting very little back and being accused of something I didn't say.

I feel attacked today by people who are supposed to be caring and helpful

Not even a congratulations on my anniversary - shows what a caring bunch you all are.

Don't wish me them now - it is too late - it would look fake now!!!!!!!!!

I am moving on in many ways today.

I didn't say congratulations on your anniversary because I know you've had relationship problems recently, and it didn't seem appropriate. It's not that I don't care, it's just that I don't know what to say.

Horace

CC - I hope you are still about because I have just popped in as I was busy with work stuff this morning. I saw that it was your wedding anniversary and wanted to wish you (sincerely) a happy anniversary.

Try not to get upset by the various trolls that frequent these fora - they don't ever read things properly and just react because they do not understand the sentiment or the feelings of people posting in the first place. Don't let one troll drive you away.

BTW how is the househunting going?

Well for some of my news - kept getting up at silly times and eventually got up at 7.22am, pottered about for a bit, typed a letter for the housing benefit people and gathered my papers together. Headed out for a business meeting (we met at a neutral place - the caff inside Sainsburys) and instead of getting the bus I walked there:eek: (about 2 miles). Had the meeting and due to various phone calls received by our Project Manager, the three of us de-camped to the jobcentre. Our DEA has been in email correspondence with the London office but the girl there is totally incompetent and seems to have lost all our paperwork and we have been told that we are unlikely to be paid next week:mad: Well, if I dont get paid then I will be signing back on and making a claim in the small claims court for my unpaid salary. Came back after the meeting (lift to the jobcentre and then walked home as it is only next door), had a much needed coffee and my remaining hotcross bun, watched neighbours and fell asleep on the sofa. Have yet to eat lunch:rolleyes: Just feel tired and worn out, I face a mountain of housework but I really can't be bothered.

Hugs to all that need them and beware of trolls.

queensway_boy

CCStar

Congratulations on your anniversary

remember what keeps us all together


CLICK

Tulip

:hello: CCStar,

Congratulations on your anniversary I do hope you will reconsider and stay with us here in this thread.I had a good day today and went to my daycentre for lunch and then I came home

Have a nice evening everyone

*hugs* to CCStar and you all

love and light,

Katie xxx

RainbowChild_2

Hi looks like it's been a hectic day on the thread.

Shazrobo..I know how you feel my DD assaulted another pupil at school yesterday - hang in there girl;)

CCstar hello and happy anniversary :T

Hello Juno, Horace, Tulip, queesway boy, weegie et all

Well said Steph..This is so true especially when we are sufffering depression it makes everything 10 times worse.

I am hanging in today and feeling a bit better than yesterday...daffodils are opening all the time...I even managed to get out to the post office to send out my first swap for read it swap it....

How are we all now?


Rainbow xx

week

Hi Rainbowchild
It has been busy today, I have hardly done a thing, only the bare minimum. Still not washed my face since I got up but did go to the supermarket. Its horrid here wet and windy. I really need to go do something in the house.
K.

Stephb1986_2

hi everyone i hope we're all feeling a bit better this evening. Still no tiff?? where has she got to she would sort us all out no problem! im not having a great day but ive had worse!

hope your all ok

Steph xx

geminilady

Horace wrote: »

CC - I hope you are still about because I have just popped in as I was busy with work stuff this morning. I saw that it was your wedding anniversary and wanted to wish you (sincerely) a happy anniversary.

Try not to get upset by the various trolls that frequent these fora - they don't ever read things properly and just react because they do not understand the sentiment or the feelings of people posting in the first place. Don't let one troll drive you away.

BTW how is the househunting going?

Well for some of my news - kept getting up at silly times and eventually got up at 7.22am, pottered about for a bit, typed a letter for the housing benefit people and gathered my papers together. Headed out for a business meeting (we met at a neutral place - the caff inside Sainsburys) and instead of getting the bus I walked there:eek: (about 2 miles). Had the meeting and due to various phone calls received by our Project Manager, the three of us de-camped to the jobcentre. Our DEA has been in email correspondence with the London office but the girl there is totally incompetent and seems to have lost all our paperwork and we have been told that we are unlikely to be paid next week:mad: Well, if I dont get paid then I will be signing back on and making a claim in the small claims court for my unpaid salary. Came back after the meeting (lift to the jobcentre and then walked home as it is only next door), had a much needed coffee and my remaining hotcross bun, watched neighbours and fell asleep on the sofa. Have yet to eat lunch:rolleyes: Just feel tired and worn out, I face a mountain of housework but I really can't be bothered.

Hugs to all that need them and beware of trolls.

As i am the person ccstar was raving at i presume you are accusing me of being a troll.I read ccstars post properly and the reply from shaz.I said nothing to ccstar nor quoted her at any time.All i was trying to do was support shaz who is doing the best she can in a very hard situation with no family or OH support.I have been a member of this forum for a long time and post when i have something to say as i said in my post to shaz.I would like to know how this makes me a troll?

antronella

Hi everyone, I've had a few days away and feel it's done me good. I have slept loads too, think I've been catching up on months of sleepless nights. I hope everyone is feeling better this evening. Welcome to all those new to the thread. Look forward to getting to know you all x

antronella

Geminilady, it was obvious to me reading your post to Shaz, that you were being supportive to her. I was upset for her too because I felt the post you were responding to could have been seen as critical of her parenting ...and we all know how much she loves her boys and does her very best for them under difficult circumstances x