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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    geminilady wrote: »
    Shaz (((((hug))))))) Do NOT feel like a failure because of what one person said.You ARE a great mum.I think Cstar jumped in without understanding your situation or how severe their illness is.We know they are ill not just unruly teenagers.I really feel for you and what you have to cope with with NO support so don't you dare let anyone make you feel bad.I have not posted for a while but felt i had to jump in here.

    CALL YOURSELF MATES!!!

    IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE A SUPPORT THREAD NOT A LYNCH MOB!!!!


    Put the wooden spoon away Geminilady read my posts properly before casting accusations on me.

    Plus I haven't felt supported lately by anyone on here so having nothing to lose really, just another load of B/S*itters pretending to be caring mates. Seeing as I have nothing to lose and I don't care if I get banned off this board on my wedding anniversary, I detest badly behaved kids whatever the reason, this is what you think I said so deal with it!!!!!!!!!!

    Go on get them all to gang up on me now - it's no better than being at school on this thread - speak your mind and you get ostracised - I DON'T NEED IT!!!!!!!!

    I NEVER SAID SHAZ WAS A FAILURE AS A PARENT - perhaps you can re-read and see I wasn't attacking her parenting skills. But you have made up your fixed narrow mind haven't you.

    I am leaving - starting a new life away from backstabbers that masquerade as mates!!!!!!!!

    I DON'T NEED THIS PETTY NARROW MINDED RUBBISH!!!!!!!!

    Goodbye and deal with it!!!!!!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    weegie.geek wrote: »
    A time? I dunno If I can commit to something like that. ;)

    It's !!!!ing down anyway just now. I'm soooooooo tempted to just go back to bed, especially after the lack of sleep last night.

    I was considering ditching today's outing and going out tomorrow for the flowers and that, but it'll be busy tomorrow, and I don't like busy. :(

    The cake suggestion's got me thinking though. Mmm, cakes. :)
    Right, you've got a reason you have to go today then: you don't want to go when it's busy tomorrow :)

    So, are you dressed yet? You can't go out if you're not, so try and get dressed and then post back here. I'm not dressed yet either so we can do it together. And then once you're dressed, put the kettle on coz you can't go out without making coffee, either.
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  • week
    week Posts: 546 Forumite
    juno wrote: »
    Right, you've got a reason you have to go today then: you don't want to go when it's busy tomorrow :)

    So, are you dressed yet? You can't go out if you're not, so try and get dressed and then post back here. I'm not dressed yet either so we can do it together. And then once you're dressed, put the kettle on coz you can't go out without making coffee, either.
    Thanks for joining in. I need to go out to the supermarket(5 mins walk) to get some bits and to go to the the post office to pay some more of my electric bill. I am going right now to change into real clothes, wash face etc and put the kettle on. Are you up for it weegie.
    K.
    Money is only of any use if you can spend it!:cool:
  • week
    week Posts: 546 Forumite
    CCstar please dont go!
    Money is only of any use if you can spend it!:cool:
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    week wrote: »
    CCstar please dont go!
    I have no issue with you week but feel I have been gossiped about behind my back and geminilady has jumped to the wrong conclusion and painted a black picture of me for all to see.

    I have made a really life changing decision today and it is our wedding anniversary. Not even a congratulations was said just an attack on me today of all days!!!

    I am purging all toxins from now on and I have a lot to do so won't be online for a while anyway.

    I don't need this backstabbing thread and haven't felt supported on here for ages.

    So unless I get an apology from geminilady for misquoting me, I won't be back
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    Don't go CCStar :(

    I can see how what you said could have been seen as an attack on Shaz, although I'm sure it wasn't meant that way. But when it comes to children people do take things to heart, and if someone is already feeling low then anything can be seen as criticism.

    I think you need to read some of what geminilady said: "don't you dare let anyone make you feel bad". That's exactly what you're doing.
    Murphy's No More Pies Club #209

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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I don't feel in the slightest bit bad - I don't like being badmouthed tho.

    My son also had problems when he was younger and I got zero support much like I do now, so resent being told I accused her of being a bad mother.

    I try and help people and get very little back and all I get told is I am horrible

    Well now I will be !!!!!!!!!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I don't feel bad but am fed up with trying to be helpful, getting very little back and being accused of something I didn't say.

    I feel attacked today by people who are supposed to be caring and helpful

    Not even a congratulations on my anniversary - shows what a caring bunch you all are.

    Don't wish me them now - it is too late - it would look fake now!!!!!!!!!

    I am moving on in many ways today.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    i dont think any of us have called you behind your back as far as im aware, to me it did look like you was slightly accusing shaz of being a bad mum perhaps you could of said it in a nicer way?

    i think all this has been blown out of proportion and should be sorted out now we're all adults here at the end of the day.

    btw happy anniversary ive only just noticed sorry :)

    Steph xx
  • weegie.geek
    weegie.geek Posts: 3,432 Forumite
    juno wrote: »
    Right, you've got a reason you have to go today then: you don't want to go when it's busy tomorrow :)

    So, are you dressed yet? You can't go out if you're not, so try and get dressed and then post back here. I'm not dressed yet either so we can do it together. And then once you're dressed, put the kettle on coz you can't go out without making coffee, either.
    week wrote: »
    Thanks for joining in. I need to go out to the supermarket(5 mins walk) to get some bits and to go to the the post office to pay some more of my electric bill. I am going right now to change into real clothes, wash face etc and put the kettle on. Are you up for it weegie.
    K.

    Sorry guys, it's still raining and I was sick earlier, so I think fate's telling me not to bother leaving the house. I'll just have to brave the crowds tomorrow and hope it's better.

    Motivation and determination aren't my strong points. ;)

    Thanks though, it's appreciated.

    *hugs*
    They say it's genetic, they say he can't help it, they say you can catch it - but sometimes you're born with it
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