How to become glamorous?

YORKSHIRELASS

I am interested in this too. For a couple of years I was a full time carer and completely lost my way with my appearance. I remember being invited to a girly night out and feeling old and frumpy compared to everyone else.

Now I am back at work I am slowly discovering my girly side again.

What I do know is that looking good requires effort. And if you take care of yourself that shows. A good haircut (and your hair doesnt have to be long), manicured nails, a bit of makeup, polished shoes, decent well fitting clothes etc. Accessories can make a difference too. Its all about looking like you have put some thought into it.

I know a lady in her 60s who I aspire to look like one day. She always has her hair done nicely, wears a bit of makeup and jewellery and wears nice clothes that are appropriate for her age.

Oh and as for exercise I am a big believer in brisk walking. Good for your state of mind too.

lushplus4

sweetcheeks33 wrote: »

I have been cleaning out my wardrobe and being quite harsh while doing it. Trying to keep a balance of having stuff to wear as I very slowly build up a new one as I can afford and getting rid of stuff that doesn't fit me- is very unlikely to again and / or doesn't make me feel good! Things that make me feel like a sad sack are going. I am trying to buy pieces that I really like and fit well. Although god I can't find new cardigans that I actually like!!!

I know what you mean Sweetcheeks. I would quiet happily throw all my clothes away and start from scratch but funds do not allow. Everything I am doing to improve myself is on a budget so even more of a challenge, good luck with your regime

lushplus4

YORKSHIRELASS wrote: »

I am interested in this too. For a couple of years I was a full time carer and completely lost my way with my appearance. I remember being invited to a girly night out and feeling old and frumpy compared to everyone else.

Now I am back at work I am slowly discovering my girly side again.

What I do know is that looking good requires effort. And if you take care of yourself that shows. A good haircut (and your hair doesnt have to be long), manicured nails, a bit of makeup, polished shoes, decent well fitting clothes etc. Accessories can make a difference too. Its all about looking like you have put some thought into it.

I know a lady in her 60s who I aspire to look like one day. She always has her hair done nicely, wears a bit of makeup and jewellery and wears nice clothes that are appropriate for her age.

Oh and as for exercise I am a big believer in brisk walking. Good for your state of mind too.

Looking good requires CONSTANT effort I have found especially now I'm getting older, I'm with you there.

I am going to keep my eye out for some lovely accessories not cheep tat from Primarni as I think that can definately add to an outfit. :)

YORKSHIRELASS

lushplus4 wrote: »

Looking good requires CONSTANT effort I have found especially now I'm getting older, I'm with you there.

I am going to keep my eye out for some lovely accessories not cheep tat from Primarni as I think that can definately add to an outfit. :)

Do you know I am not so sure that people can tell the difference (or care) these days whether your clothes are from Asda or a designer shop. I prefer to spend more money on my hair and beauty products and less on my clothes.

Of course with the cheap stuff it might not last (bobbly jumpers and worn knees are going to spoil the look) but I am currently looking for a spring jacket and have seen some really nice options in the cheaper shops.

sweetcheeks33

You don't a always have to spend a fortune. My key pieces such as black trousers etc and more expensive but my more fashion pieces are from cheaper shops- I have no issue where I shop as long as I like it and it fits well... Good fitting clothes is on of the keys to looking good

Hermia

YORKSHIRELASS wrote: »

Do you know I am not so sure that people can tell the difference (or care) these days whether your clothes are from Asda or a designer shop. I prefer to spend more money on my hair and beauty products and less on my clothes.

I can always tell! With me I find more expensive clothes fit better. I think it depends on your shape. I have an hourglass shape and am petite and find very few cheap ranges tailor their clothes (i.e. no darts/shaping around bust, waist, shoulders etc). I think if you have a tall straight body then you are going to find it so much easier to find cheap clothes that look amazing. More expensive fabric also just drapes so beautifully around your body.

I think the thing that really ruins your appearance is badly fitting clothes (expensive or cheap). A woman (or man) can be dressed to the nines, but if the fabric is pulling somewhere or gaping or the person keeps having to adjust it then the outfit is killed stone dead IMO.

wannabeslim

My tip is to find a celeb with a style that you like who has similar colouring and a similar shape to you, study how they do hair, make up and put an outfit together and then copy them adapting as you go to suit yourself and eventually the style will evolve to be your own but with all the benefits of professional advice

lushplus4

Hermia wrote: »

I can always tell! With me I find more expensive clothes fit better. I think it depends on your shape. I have an hourglass shape and am petite and find very few cheap ranges tailor their clothes (i.e. no darts/shaping around bust, waist, shoulders etc). I think if you have a tall straight body then you are going to find it so much easier to find cheap clothes that look amazing. More expensive fabric also just drapes so beautifully around your body.

I think the thing that really ruins your appearance is badly fitting clothes (expensive or cheap). A woman (or man) can be dressed to the nines, but if the fabric is pulling somewhere or gaping or the person keeps having to adjust it then the outfit is killed stone dead IMO.

I am a similar body shape to you and at 5'2'' tall quite petite. I feel I should wear heels all the time as somehow I look unbalanced.

I am going to focus on what really fits well and that suits me. I sadly do not have the funds to buy designer gear, but what I do have is time to shop around effectively and think carefully before I buy anymore.

After a great night out on Saturday I am feeling very positive. My skin is looking better, I am liking my hair colour and false lashes made me feel very glam!!

At the weekend I have

1. washed and ironed loads of stuff, now to start sorting out and decluttering

2. Taken vits and eaten sensibly, have lost 2lbs :T

3. Worn makeup carefully applied.

4. Used new whitening toothpaste which appears to be working!!

5. Had a wee chuckle to myself at Liza Minellie's Oscar outfit. No Bra!!!! OMG it's comforting to know that money can't always buy style.

:):)

lushplus4

wannabeslim wrote: »

My tip is to find a celeb with a style that you like who has similar colouring and a similar shape to you, study how they do hair, make up and put an outfit together and then copy them adapting as you go to suit yourself and eventually the style will evolve to be your own but with all the benefits of professional advice

I love this idea but can't think who I am like :think:

lushplus4

I am working on a capsule wardrobe, something like this, anyone have any other ideas?