The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

codemonkey

That's rubbish news tea but good that you managed to have a conversation about it. Massive hugs.

shrimpy_80

Sorry haven't caught up properly but just wanted to say hope you're ok Tea, thinking of you xx

vesper

Sorry I am majorly behind with everything at the moment, been so busy with my business I haven't had much time to come on the internet as have been working very long days.
Had my lap and dye yesterday and they have said that everything is fine there. Which means by the look of it, our problems are unexplained fertility. In my head that sounds worse than there actually being something blocked as if there was a reason I could at least know there was something wrong. Now I can't get pregnant, well.... just because. I hope that makes sense, in does in my head, but I have no doubt that it won't make sense when read back.
Poor woman had to cope with so many tears when she told me.

So I have no idea what the next step is, they mentioned Clomid last time, but I have no idea how that can help due to it being unexplained fertility. I will just have to wait I suppose until I get another appointment and see.

good_vibes

*hugs* Vesper, I was given 3 months of clomid for male factor. Work that one out!!!


AFM coming up to end of 2ww. Have passed the points of 1st try now. Please, please work. Still holding off testing.

picklekin

Everything crossed for you GV. Come on embies!

shrimpy_80

Sending lots of good vibes to you GV! Fingers and toes crossed. Hope this week goes as quick as it can and looking forward to hearing good news on Friday :-)

I think I will be prescribed Clomid for male factor as well, the consultant said if the SA results were still poor but not terrible they would try me on medication, so I'm assuming he meant Clomid. If they are very poor it will mean straight to IVF. Two weeks to wait til we find out, have booked the day off work as I don't imagine I will want to go in regardless of the result, plus I've had so much time off for appointments recently I'm sure everyone thinks I'm at deaths door!

codemonkey

Fingers crossed GV.

I think the clomid is a time wasting thing in unexplained infertilty. So you take it for a few months and they hope you get pregnant so they don't need to pay for ivf.

good_vibes

ty ladies, but it's all over bleeding again
Did have a BFP the 2 days.
Am getting closer ladies
xxxx

codemonkey

oh gv, I'm so sorry. Hugs.

ThinkPink

Huge hugs gv.

And also for anyone else who needs one.