The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

mrsvicx

Oh PM, my heart is breaking for you...
I found that nothing made me feel better, except time. Im still struggling, but I have good days and bad days.
Im still keeping my fingers crossed for a good outcome for you, but if you do lose your little one, please be reassured that once your hormones settle down, you will be able to look at things with a clearer view. This took a good couple of weeks after I lost my little one for me.
Try not to discuss the future yet with your other half, he will just be worried about you, and how you are coping, as men often look at these things differently to us as they are not the ones that A) it is happening to and that has carried a baby for several weeks. Take care of one another, but take one day at a time.

And know that we are all here for you, whenever you need to rant, moan, talk, cry etc... xx

Part_Mouse

Code my dh isn't much of a care taker I'm afraid.hes rather a closed book when it comes to feelings etc.

Mrs vicx I'm so sorry your struggling to I wish things would look better at some point soon but I'm honest I don't see things getting better.itsbeen such a struggle to get pregnant and now for this to happen the only thing that looks likely is more bleeding which know one can get a control over.

mrsvicx

Day by day PM, it's the only way to get through it :grouphug:
I'm trying to accept that what will be, will be but I've been so lucky in other areas of my life, that it's very hard not to just throw a huge tantrum about how unfair it is...

gettingthereslowly

So sorry PM. Snding you hugs xxx

danielle keeping my fingers crossed for you xx

Part_Mouse

Luck,that's not something that seems to come my way.im so tired I should try to sleep as not sure what day it is.

picklekin

I hope you managed to sleep some PM. *hugs*

emmaj30

Part mouse, Im so sorry for the situation that's happening to you right now. I was in your shoes 4 weeks ago and to tell you the truth it DOES get better. It will always hurt but other things start to happen and I always know that little bean will always be there with me no matter what!!!


It will be an upsetting time but try to take time with your friends and family and keep yourself busy. It will happen good for you eventually xxxx

Part_Mouse

Morning all

Stomachs in knots,scan again this am,depending on outcome surgery later.

tea_lover

Thinking of you sweetheart, have everything crossed that there'll be a better outcome today. We're all here for you whatever happens xxx.

picklekin

Take care of yourself PM.