The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

codemonkey

lisawood78 wrote: »

I really really wish we could try naturally ,I really miss it even if it was just a fools hope, today I feel totally hopeless and useless and angry with my body for being just so damn crap.

I totally understand lisa. I feel cheated that we can't even try and also stupid for even thinking it was possible. I'm even a bit jealous of the people doing IVF because at least they still have a chance. Big hugs for you.

picklekin

pinkteapot wrote: »

pickle - what a romantic question to proposition you :rotfl:

Yes, really gets one in the mood!!! At least it makes me laugh, which is what we both need right now.

I'm sorry Lisa, I know its easy to forget what issues others have, I think we get all so wrapped up in our own little journey its easy to take for granted what we do have.

I just had some good news for once, my OH's promotion came through, couldn't have come at a better time, its nice to actually have something good happen even its not TTC related (although I have earmarked the extra cash for IVF of course!!)

codemonkey

picklekin wrote: »

Yes, really gets one in the mood!!! At least it makes me laugh, which is what we both need right now.

I'm sorry Lisa, I know its easy to forget what issues others have, I think we get all so wrapped up in our own little journey its easy to take for granted what we do have.

I just had some good news for once, my OH's promotion came through, couldn't have come at a better time, its nice to actually have something good happen even its not TTC related (although I have earmarked the extra cash for IVF of course!!)

Back when we BD'd for reasons other than fun, the usual call to action was either "Ok, I'm ovulating. Do me!!" or "Are you ovulating?" It's so very romantic.

Yay for the promotion!!

Part_Mouse

Pickle great news on your oh promotion.I to would have earmarked the money.

Lisa & code I wish there was something more I could do than just off hugs,life really can be a b!tch.

Little me thats terrible for them to say call back in a year.If you need clomid then there is a prob there and oh having sperm probs wont help either. I hope your consultant can be more helpful.

Afm the hosptial saga carrys on.The referal hasn't gone off yet as they didnt get all the info they needed so won't have any news by the time my fs calls back, I called to speak to the lady that never called back and shes not in.

tea_lover

Pretty sure a donkey has kicked me in the hoo-ha.

onestep

codemonkey wrote: »

Back when we BD'd for reasons other than fun, the usual call to action was either "Ok, I'm ovulating. Do me!!" or "Are you ovulating?" It's so very romantic.

Yay for the promotion!!

Haha!! In our house it is "hop on then!" who says romance is dead?

Part_Mouse

In our house I think iv'e healed up

Loveactually

Pickle - congrats on the promotion

Lisa and code - so sorry about how things are offering huge hugs

Tea - 17 eggs are good. I definitely think they will be lots of good eggs which will fertilise all the best for tomorrow's phone call

Good vibes - how is the TWW going on?

Isla - all the best for EC tomorrow.

Partmouse - I hope you get in touch with that lady who promised you an appointment

Thanks for the wishes ladies.

isla_red

tea_lover wrote: »

Pretty sure a donkey has kicked me in the hoo-ha.

tea! :eek: You're like the ghost of Christmas yet to come! :rotfl: Seriously tho, that's some eggy haul and I hope you get good news tomorrow.

Catch up properly when I'm not loo typing again!

Part_Mouse

LA I get the feeling she isnt bothered about us at all, dh said hes not going to keep chasing these people either