The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

pinkteapot

pickle - I'm so sorry for what you're going through but glad in a perverse way that the uncertainty is reducing.

la - tentative congrats and mini squeees until it's more certain.

tea_lover

Back home now. 17 eggs but all quite little, they don't know if any will be mature enough to use Feeling v disappointed and a bit useless tbh.

Feeling OK physically though. Bit uncomfortable but sure a day on the sofa will help. My hand really hurts though! Managed to catch my bra strap on the canula when getting dressed....ow!

Part_Mouse

Tea huge hugs to you, I really hope you've got some good mature eggs in there.is the cat around for cuddles on the sofa?

lisawood78

Oh Tea. Hoping hard that they can use your wonderful clutch of eggs. Rest up and go steady for the rest of the day, good luck for tomorrow's phone call x

picklekin

That's a lot of eggies Tea, I hope some of them make it.

and pink I k now what you mean about the last ditch attempt before IVF, we are now MORE determined than ever to make these last month or so WORK, I told OH that I'd read people are often more fertile after a MC so now he keeps asking "Are you still bleeding" morning and night. (We are not a "rise above the mess" kind of couple )

Wonder_Woman

Aaaw tea, 17 is loads so bound to be some good eggies in there Make sure you get some rest this afternoon. xx

I know I'm late to the party on this one but which relaxation CD is everyone using? Would still like to get one.

pinkteapot

tea - enjoy the rest, eat some choccies and watch some cr*p TV. Fingers crossed for good news on the eggy front.

pickle - what a romantic question to proposition you :rotfl:

littleme82

Hi, sorry been quiet but I am going to take a step back from the forum for a bit.

We had a letter from our consultant saying he had referred us for IVF to start in June. I telephone to book everything only to be told "you not ovulating and your partner's rubbish sperm aren't a bad enough problem. Phone back in April 2015 and you'll get funding then".

As you can imagine its all rather difficult at the moment. I stop taking medication next month after 12 cycles on clomid - then what?

Still waiting to hear from my consultant.....

Good luck ladies. When I know what is happening I will be back. Until then I hope you all get your BFPs soon

xx

And also that I feel that unless you post everyday whatever you do post tends to go unmissed....

lisawood78

I really really wish we could try naturally ,I really miss it even if it was just a fools hope, today I feel totally hopeless and useless and angry with my body for being just so damn crap.

pinkteapot

lisawood78 wrote: »

I really really wish we could try naturally ,I really miss it even if it was just a fools hope, today I feel totally hopeless and useless and angry with my body for being just so damn crap.

Sorry, Lisa, I hope my comments didn't contribute to you feeling bad.