Stepping into 2014- walking in My Shoes with Mooloo

Savvy_sewing

I don't have a key. She left the keys with the so called friend who is living there. The ones who ripped out the kitchen last week.
I have left a message for the social services, asking for help, and they were off with me, but since have rung me back and have contacted the police. Said they will contact their opposites if we get an address.
I was paying her rent difference, her council tax difference, and the phone bills. The phone is in my name. I put it in for DS originally.
Housing haven't got back to me. But they will take the house back And that's fine. Twin2 cannot come back if it's gone. I cannot have her here. And the twins have fallen out and not talking. so she has burnt her boats.
Of course there is the furniture to get out if we can gain access etc or we will get billed from housing. But DS is now looking at a different property tomorrow this one is unfurnished, so we could do with the furniture for him if we could. But there is a loft full of stuff, the boys things etc were in the loft. Plus god knows what.
It's just another thing to deal with. I'm just frazzled.

Savvy_sewing

duchy wrote: »

With BT you could get it changed to incoming only I believe (I work for the opposition and they do things differently) whilst waiting for it to cancel down.

They told me they can't do it unless I am in the house by the hand set.

elisamoose

Call barring from the handset is user controlled but I am sure ( from working for BT years ago) that you can go incoming only at you request and this is done via the exchange.
If this is not now possible then 30 days notice is required but you can have the line stopped before this but you pay the notice period.May be the best option to avoid a huge bill of international calls!
BTW I really would not recommend cutting the wires on the outside of the property!

Savvy_sewing

elisamoose wrote: »

Call barring from the handset is user controlled but I am sure ( from working for BT years ago) that you can go incoming only at you request and this is done via the exchange.
If this is not now possible then 30 days notice is required but you can have the line stopped before this but you pay the notice period.May be the best option to avoid a huge bill of international calls!
BTW I really would not recommend cutting the wires on the outside of the property!

No I wouldn't cut the wires as I would be billed, that's my luck. Man has got back to me. Said if I call back in 24 hours, they may be able to help me earlier. I hope so. I told him why, perhaps he went to a supervisor.
This evening Twin2 has been back in contact and asked for money. Couldn't send her any as don't have it. You were right she is back with the boy she went to Csmbridge with.

haybel19

Hey Mooloo thank you for bringing me up to speed.

Big hugs wish I knew what to say xxx

Savvy_sewing

haybel19 wrote: »

Hey Mooloo thank you for bringing me up to speed.

Big hugs wish I knew what to say xxx

"And Breathe?"

Right instinct is to run away. Biggest of Mooloo, also had harsh words with me last night, and hung up on me.
It is my fault for not going over on Thursday apparently. Twin2 had told me she wouldn't be there so I didn't go.
So I am in the wrong. Great.
Instinct is to tell my lot to go forth and multiply. But in the long run that's rather short sighted, and will only make matters worse.
At least this week I don't have to babysit for biggest, as it's DGD2's birthday, so her Dad is having her.

So for Moo it's time to put my BGKs on, and deal with it all.
I was tempted to book a late deal holiday for next week, even if I have to use my plastic, but if I do that then I won't be able to afford a holiday with BF later in the year.

I am strong. I can deal with this. I can.
But my kids are not in my good books at the moment.

Errata

So I am in the wrong. Great

No you're not, and that young lady needs to learn some manners. Tell her to get her tanks off your lawn.

*Robin*

'Morning Mooloo, :hello:

Many (((((hugs))))) across the airwaves, dodgy ones too: :grouphug:

No idea what to suggest - except get on with your own life, which you're doing, BGK an' all! :T

Well done for resisting the latest demand for money. Next time, it will be a bit easier to say "No".. And keep on saying it.

If T2 does hit rock bottom, there is still the option we discussed by pm - she won't enjoy the structured way of life initially, but it would set her up without you having to pick up the pieces, again ad infinitum.

duchy

Mooloo BT will have a "accessibility" department that deals with customers with disabilities. In this instance I'd suggest you play the disabled card (or rather Twins disabled card) and speak to them as they may be more proactive if the bloke you spoke to doesn't get back to you shortly.

It may not be needed as I'd imagine the housing association will be securing the flat shortly- especially if you let them know Twin has given the keys to someone else - who has already destroyed the kitchen. Is it possible they could prosecute for criminal damage ?

Frankly I'd have told the lot of them to sod off before now and I admire your persistence with them. One day they'll appreciate it . <dodgy hugs from here too>

Savvy_sewing

Just got the housing officer. Waiting for an email from her to reply to. Once I tell her in the Email about twin2 going they will do the legal stuff to get the house secured. Afraid I cried on her! Am stressed.
But she was very sympathetic and agreed that it was ok for me to stop paying the bills. As debt will be twin2 and not me. So the best thing is to just let it all go. But if I can get the cooker out etc it would have helped DS I think, as place we are to look at today is different one. This one is unfurnished.
I am going to ask if he and his girlfriend will have Biggests Daughter next week so DGD and I can go to a few national trust places and get out and about.
Now I have housework to get on and do!