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  • satchmo1
    satchmo1 Posts: 3,229 Forumite
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    I truly wish I had the 3 hours available for that.


    It's crucial that you keep that appointment, it's an investment in your future!


    Hugs
    Satchmo xx
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  • So, checked out the surgery website, it says that if a matter is urgent, an emergency appointment can be mad. Looks like that's the fight for today. I've had a week of being messed about by those in authority or assumed authority, today is the day when I take no carp. It's also when I have my appraisal for a board position I hold and my less than satisfactory chair better be ready. So far this week, I've had two NSDs, today however will need to buy lunch as I currently don't know what time and/or facilities I will have so it could be a grab and go. Also, given that OH put our cash stash in a very safe place, I'm still living off last week's allowance. We really should find that safe place! Not sure how we stand money wise as I've dd spends on my credit card and the money already transferred to current account, etc. roll on the weekend when I can sit down with pen and paper.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • satchmo1
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    Good luck with everything today x
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  • Seasidegal58
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    Hope you got your appointment sorted and everything is fine.
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  • Things are bad. Been referred to hospital as am on maximum meds allowed to be given without consultant input. Have also been put back on antidepressants. Not sure how I feel about any of it. I know exactly what I need to do but don't do it. It's a bit like when you're in debt and you know that you need to stop spending so you panic and go shopping. The difference is that the stakes are a lot higher. This isn't something that can go away. Why can't I just do what is needed?
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Ali-OK
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    Coming out of lurkdom as a follower of your thread (you're my mortgage reduction pace setter :D) to send some supportive vibes your way.

    Sorry to hear your news and hope that the health lightbulb comes on for you. Is there a teeny-weeny step you can take to start things going in the right direction?

    Really hope things improve for you. :)
    Back on the DFW Wagon:

    CC - £3,300 on 0% til 04/2020
    CC - £4,500 on 0% til 02/2019
    Loan - £12,063.84 as at 4/1/18
  • satchmo1
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    INOD, I hope you aren't too despondent today, and you manage to do something active with your OH.


    Could you get your team on board at work to support you in avoiding sugary snacks? When I needed to change my eating habits my team were really supportive and encouraging (although there was no reduction in the amount of sugary snacks on the snack desk.


    I made sure I took three fruit portions as well as my huge salad. I'd have one portion mid morning, one after lunch and the final portion mid afternoon. It helped stop me feeling deprived. Apples were useful because the crunch was satisfying. I'd take a kilo bag in on Monday morning.


    Hugs
    Satchmo x
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  • Greying_Pilgrim
    Greying_Pilgrim Posts: 6,617 Forumite
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    Things are bad.

    Why can't I just do what is needed?

    Reframe the question to yourself.

    Will I do what is needed?

    The answer options are simply YES or NO

    Every time you falter, ask yourself the same question.

    Your obvious intelligence, ability and tenacity will get you through this.

    Greying
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  • Hiya INOD xxxx


    Sorry things are a bit rough at the mo - am thinking of you. Keep us updated on GP/hospital visits if you want to chat about everything xxxxx
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  • Oh dear not so good re blood results. My friend was the same and ended up on insulin injections. Horrible disease
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
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