Family cut themselves out of my son's life

mellymoo74

duchy wrote: »

Squeezes in between Dimey and Meri to stop them bickering and strokes Barnes.

Hang on in there Wiggy it'll be fine ....No-one can force you to see them. Hold your ground.

Your Mum and sister must be insane to put your nephew in this situation.

Wiggy am I right that your sis is the one who drives with the car? I think she bullied your sis into bringing her and they thought you'd open tbe door if you're nephew waz there.

Well done again love nice cuppa watch ice age with wigglet.

paulineb_2

If she tried to abduct your child she could end up jailed.

meritaten

yes and that shaky feeling is the adrenaline draining from your body! hot sweet tea! best thing for shock - because that's what it is!
now get back to normal bedtime routine for Wiglet and then come and talk it all out! not cos we are nosy - but you need to get it out of your system - or even better, invite neighbour in and let it out to them!

paulineb_2

And make sure that if you are getting parcels you know who it is before you open the door and let them into your flat, you can always collect a parcel from the post office or a sorting office.

PuzzledDave

So glad to hear it went as well as possible !

Did she actually try to use the key ? :eek: If not, it may be she has gone to get it... or come back tomorrow with it.

paulineb_2

PuzzledDave wrote: »

So glad to hear it went as well as possible !

Did she actually try to use the key ? :eek: If not, it may be she has gone to get it... or come back tomorrow with it.

Locks have been changed, she wont get in.

wiggywoo9

Yes my sister drives now but only a learner still, my mum has her own car. I don't know why they brought my nephew, in some mental part of my mum's mind, perhaps she thought it'd be an easy trip to see my son and bully me again?

There's no way I'm going to try contacting my sister now. She's clearly a pawn in my mum's games or aligns herself too clearly with her. I always found it easier to talk to her and get on with her, its such a shame.

wiggywoo9

I think the locks must have put her off guard. Don't think she was expecting me to do that. She would have just walked in else.

HPoirot

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Wiggy am I right that your sis is the one who drives with the car? I think she bullied your sis into bringing her and they thought you'd open tbe door if you're nephew waz there.

Well done again love nice cuppa watch ice age with wigglet.

The sister appears to be the mother's pawn and given to choose between WIggy and her mother, would swear loyalty to the mother. Wiggy you should let her come round, break out of it, in her own time. Saying anything to her now will go right back to your mother.

Oops, cross posted with you saying virtually the same thing.

mellymoo74

wiggywoo9 wrote: »

Yes my sister drives now but only a learner still, my mum has her own car. I don't know why they brought my nephew, in some mental part of my mum's mind, perhaps she thought it'd be an easy trip to see my son and bully me again?

There's no way I'm going to try contacting my sister now. She's clearly a pawn in my mum's games or aligns herself too clearly with her. I always found it easier to talk to her and get on with her, its such a shame.

It is but try not to be angry or disappointed with her your mum has her brainwashed. Time to start planning Christmas as we discussed on your other thread.