The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

time2deal

Sorry. Resuming normal service now.

PM - so so sorry about AF. Huge hugs. Very tough, but hopefully they learned a lot this cycle for you and will help next time. But that's no help now I know.

And hugs also mrsdavo. Bad news is so hard to take.

TL - no talk of car accidents please! We are here for support, and don't forget you can talk to friends if you find the strength. I'm a big advocate of that as you know - talking to others released me from stressful misery, and while it doesn't get rid of the fundamental problem of TTC, I promise it does help.

Hugs to anyone I missed. Typing on the phone.

AFM, nothing happening of course as I now have contraception in place! Just in Dublin waiting for a delayed flight home.

Part_Mouse

T2d I don't think anything was learnt this cycle really just the egg takes so long to come my lining comes away and I'm a seriously rubbish responder. Hope your flight comes soon.

codemonkey

Sorry for AF Part Mouse.

Continuing the rubbish theme, today DH spoke to the doctor again and it's not good news. He needs to have blood hormone tests because of the "absence of sperm" in his samples. So essentially we're a bit screwed aren't we?

Had a wee cry on him earlier but I'm devastated. I knew there had to be a reason it wasn't happening but I was hoping it was my dodgy ovulation.

:(

Part_Mouse

oh code im so sorry

Part_Mouse

Argh men are so selfish, I went to bed for a bit dh went to his mums, he said he would come back and cook, thats not happened hes not even come back.

danielley

Code - Hopefully the blood hormone tests are to determine the root cause and can be used to plan the next step. I hope that you & your DH are ok.

Part Mouse - What a bad day you are having. I know from my experience that DH & I deal with AF disappointment in different ways, he goes grumpy and I go sad. I hope you can get back on track asap, as it sounds like you need some tlc x

Afm, night in with the remote as DH out with work, cat on knee, no sign of AF yet but. on a normal cycle it is anywhere between CD29-33 and who knows how the Clomid will affect it. Only BD once this cycle so not expecting anything at all.... It's quite nice that the pressure is off for a month in a perverse way.

Hugs to all x

Part_Mouse

danielley tlc, im not even sure what that is, we haven't even bd since we 'had to' this cycle. I feel so unloved right now

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

danielley tlc, im not even sure what that is, we haven't even bd since we 'had to' this cycle. I feel so unloved right now

will a dodgy hug help? :grouphug:

Part_Mouse

thanks code, sat here in tears again with no sign of dh.

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

thanks code, sat here in tears again with no sign of dh.

Can you text him and ask him to come back? Then make yourself a yummy chocolatey snack, have some wine and I'll send the dog over for a hug.