The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

Big hugs PM, so sorry to hear that. Hope you're ok xx.

Found the bake off eventually.... stupid iplayer delays!

I0dpo and feeling distinctly PMS'y today so that should put an end to the excessive ss'ing.

tea_lover

Spotting

codemonkey

:grouphug: dodgy hugs PM. So sorry to hear about your loss. Hope you're ok.

Afm, spotting started today so AF is definitely on her way - knew it was coming, just bleurgh. Why do I always give in to hope when I know there's no reason to?

time2deal

TL - sorry about the spotting. But that is early for you isn't it - you said you were expecting it on Friday. Dare I say... implantation...

The illusive implantation bleeding. The last hope of the TTC'er.

I didn't watch Bake-off in the end, so no spoilers!

tea_lover

Hey T2D - I did wonder about implantation... like you say, our last hope lol! It is a bit early - would usually spot for a few days from 12dpo, maybe 11 at a push but never 10. But tbh realism has set in now.

Was just desperate this month as then we wouldn't have to pay for ICSI! :rotfl:

I feel pretty rough! Was fine this morning, but in the last hour or so have developed an upset stomach out of nowhere Good job there's only me in today as have to keep running to the loo . Also have a killer backache. Think I might go home soon.

danielley

Very sorry to hear your news PM

fannyanna

Just popping on to say that I can be removed from the lists as I'm admitting defeat.

Thanks for all your support and wishing good things for you all x

codemonkey

fannyanna wrote: »

Just popping on to say that I can be removed from the lists as I'm admitting defeat.

Thanks for all your support and wishing good things for you all x

Oh fannyanna, I'm so sorry. I wish you weren't going. Actually, more than anything, I wish we all were going with huge BFPs.

Primmer

PM - huge hugs sorry for your loss

TL & Code - hugs for spotting, still hope for you both that af stays away.

Fannyanna - sending hugs and remember we are always here if you need us xx

Onestep - how is the new job going? we went to a voluntary agency open evening on adoption last week and it had a much nicer feel to it than the local authority one we ent to before. Still not sure that they will accept us with our credit card debt but for the moment there is some brief hope.

tea_lover

fannyanna - big hugs. Have everything crossed that you'll be one of those "gave up trying and had triplets" women that we all hear about! We're all here for you if, whether you're trying or not. Take care x.