The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

time2deal

Can I admit to something insane? When the panda got pregnant, I was all 'harrumph... even the f'ing panda can get pregnant and I can't!'. Now I feel bad that she lost the cub. Or, maybe nothing ever happened, I still think the zoo was experiencing collective extreme symptom spotting!

Tiger makes me sadder though. I watched the little video they showed when it was born, so was sad to hear it drowned today.

codemonkey

time2deal wrote: »

Can I admit to something insane? When the panda got pregnant, I was all 'harrumph... even the f'ing panda can get pregnant and I can't!'. Now I feel bad that she lost the cub. Or, maybe nothing ever happened, I still think the zoo was experiencing collective extreme symptom spotting!

Tiger makes me sadder though. I watched the little video they showed when it was born, so was sad to hear it drowned today.

I thought that too. Now I feel bad. And so sad about the baby tiger. :(

vesper

Agree time2deal, I don't think the panda was pregnant at any time, they did say they didn't know, and I think they are just saying it had a miscarriage to stop people saying it was a waste of time. And those zoo keepers definitely need a wagging finger. That was more than extreme ss-ing.

Part_Mouse

Not ttc related ladies but just lost a loved one tonight and didn't get to say goodbye I was to late:(:(:(

vesper

Oh I am so sorry part mouse, huge huge hugs.

Part_Mouse

Thanks I shouldn't moan just feel really gutted, I thought she could hold on until tommorow but she's slipped away.

time2deal

Oh PM, sending hugs. So tough... puts all our complaints in perspective.

purcy81

Oh PM biggest hugs to you hun x

Part_Mouse

I just booked train tickets this evening but even that was to late:(

cwtw

Huge hugs partmouse sorry for your bad news.

On a new ttc low, husband is really poorly but we HAD to bd as got high on cbfm. Av secretly, quietly hoping that we will be one of the few who get pregnant after their HSG. Even though we have been trying for so long, and there's no reason for the extra hope. Feel like I might need to wag finger myself :rotfl: