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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Thanks Part Mouse, its nothing too bad, there was a few weeks of panic as he lost his job the week before xmas, so he couldn't even really look for a job until after new year. But credit to him, he phoned as many places as possible and took the first job he could get on the 2nd Jan.
    He's already made a really good impression as he has been there for 7 years when he was younger, but they are already giving he the indication of promotion. He seems a lot happier there, the only problem is the lower wage at the moment as there's no overtime.


    Time to get back on the horse and go for it. Or at least attempt to get the answers.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Vesper redundancy is never a good thing esp around Xmas.glad to hear he's happier though.

    ATM I'm starving today, 2 x provera a day doesn't agree with me.so not looking forward to the withdrawal bleed.
  • Question for those who have been through EC

    How long did you bleed for afterwards? Still bleeding a bit two days later.

    Also think I have mild OHSS. Really bloated and a bit uncomfortable.

    Another one in the unexplained camp here!
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    WTDN, can't fully remember on the bleeding but think I spotted for a couple of days, nothing heavy. Keep an eye on those OHSS symptoms and call the hospital if you're at all worried.

    We're explained, as we have pretty much everything wrong that there can be! Not sure it's helping us to know the problems so far.

    Off to mil's birthday dinner later. OH's heavily pg niece will be there (due this week). Its their second and they met after we'd already started trying. Genuinely happy for them but it's hard. This will be Mil's second great grandchild and we haven't even managed a grandchild yet...we're so behind.

    Big hugs everyone....and if you're still lurking massive congrats bz xx
  • Has BZ had her baby?!?!? Congrats if so BZ!!

    Thanks tea, hope you enjoyed your meal despite the heavily pregnant niece. At least you can drink!

    X
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Congrats on the little man Big-Z! Great news.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Well done Big Z. Congratulations on the birth of your son.

    tea lover - hope you get through the meal ok. Just remember we all love you and where there is still sperm and eggs, there is hope. Your 'friend' sounds horrendous.

    wtdn, how are you doing now?

    vesper - good to see you. Glad your DH has another job now.

    t2d - keeping my fingers crossed for you tomorrow.

    Hope you guys don't mind me still posting here. I'm not quite ready to leave.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Don't be silly code - you are of course welcome here! You are taking a bit of a detour, but still with us as long as you want to be.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code agree with tea, don't be going anywhere.

    Not ttc related but my lower back is killing me.
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    WTDN - I only had a few streaks of blood on toilet paper. Instead I had a lot of pain. Everyone must be different in how they react.

    ET is tomorrow and I'm getting a bit nervous. I've had no news since Thursday so don't know how many are still progressing. I'm appointment has been moved back to the end of the day but I'm still able to get acupuncture.

    Congratulations Team Lowe, BZ and good look for tomorrow T2D.
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