The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

time2deal

I had no bleeding or pain. Mind you I never get bleeding or pain - not even much after a cone biopsy.

I must be a little bloodless, or perhaps my cervix area has decided it get assaulted so often it makes sense to remove all pain sensors!

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Code agree with tea, don't be going anywhere.

Not ttc related but my lower back is killing me.

My entire body hurts. I hate decorating!! Also sleeping on a mattress on the floor until our new bed arrives on Friday which is not helping my old lady back. Why do we have lower backs anyway?

time2deal

Right ladies - time for my next straw poll.

What does everyone (who has done it) think about partners attending ET? I appreciate this is a similar question to last weeks, but I suppose this time I'm technically getting (lets not say the word) part of me feels like DH should be there!

Opinions welcome.

mrshappy

T2D-it never crossed out minds for him not to be at transfer-would be a bit strange not for him to be at the conception, even though technically that took place in the lab on collection day. He came to transfer and held my hand as we watched the transfer on the wee screen and we both sent silent sticky vibes. So, yes, I'm all for partners at transfer x

Good luck all with transfers coming up x

Part_Mouse

Code lower backs are a huge pain when they go wrong, jut had a codine so hope that helps.

mrshappy

Here is hubby clearly not stressing 5 minutes before transfer the way I was I think he liked the dressing up aspect of it

time2deal

There is dressing up?! My Dummy ET's were just in my normal skirt. But I suppose there is more to worry about with the real one. I'll decide tomorrow.

tea_lover

OH was at ET last time, one of the v few appts we've actually attended together lol. I'm all for going on my own usually but I really wanted him there for that one, not sure why. Think it was partly as I felt so ill and tired, but also it just seemed like an important moment for both of us. Like mr happy, I think he also liked the dressing up! Despite how much activity there is 'down there' I was v covered with a blanket and OH had a chair by my head. If nothing else I think it doesn't hurt for them to see some of what we go through lol.

mrshappy

time2deal wrote: »

There is dressing up?! My Dummy ET's were just in my normal skirt. But I suppose there is more to worry about with the real one. I'll decide tomorrow.

Yup, ar $e flashing hospital gowns-always a hot look x

Whattodonow

T2d - would deffo have OH there if possible.

Good luck peonie and T2D for ET!!

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