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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Hello ladies

    Sorry not been round much recently. Since downregging I've felt the need to hunker down somewhat. I can't explain really why or how I feel! It's a bit of not wanting to think too much about TTC in case I jinx it I think. Plus a bit of ridiculous self-protection (if I don't get hopes up, etc etc). So want to apologise for not being supportive recently.

    Just wanted to wish all you lovely lovely ladies a merry christmas and the biggest of hopes that 2014 will be our year and we all graduate from this godforsaken thread. We all deserve it.

    Massive hugs to you all.

    Got my first scan on the 3rd. Will update then xxx
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    WTDN - I know the feeling. I feel bad when I don't post as I'm a bit down, and then get all active when something is happening! But such is life.

    IVF is tough emotionally, so it's perfectly reasonable to try to protect yourself. Plus DR is horribly depressing sometimes. God knows what I will be like with the real menopause!

    Merry Christmas everyone! I'm just about to leave the office, and can't wait for the break.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Merry Christmas to all I'm praying we all get our forever babies and never again be a long time ttcer.

    Sewit glad to hear the balls rolling.im dreading getting af or a bfn and taking a couple of months for a cycle. Been on injections 5 months and only had 2 cycles.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Ok this is a strange one, sorry tmi just had cloudy cwcm in 2ww.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Part_Mouse wrote: »
    Merry Christmas to all I'm praying we all get our forever babies and never again be a long time ttcer.

    Sewit glad to hear the balls rolling.im dreading getting af or a bfn and taking a couple of months for a cycle. Been on injections 5 months and only had 2 cycles.
    Part_Mouse wrote: »
    Ok this is a strange one, sorry tmi just had cloudy cwcm in 2ww.


    Why do we all keep saying sorry for the TMI? Nothing is TMI in here!!

    That being said, I have no idea. Maybe a good thing??

    :beer: Here's to us all having forever babies next year and this thread no longer existing.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    But..but... I'd miss you lot! We will all just have to hangout on the pregnancy threads together. :)
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code they say cm should dry up post ov, not that I no very much about post ov things. Hehe we all say tmi but tbh not much is tmi now.

    T2d nothing could be better than all meeting up on the pregnancy board.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    I think post ov CM can come and go, and change all the way through. Not that I have it much anymore! But I wouldn't worry, and try not to SS. :)
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    It's so mighty to ss. It's still very strange for me to be in 3rd 2ww of my life. Still trying to get see to how these things go.
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    Just wanted to pop in and say Merry Christmas to you all and I hope the festive season doesn't force too many awkward encounters with pregnant family members.

    I hope you're all long gone from this thread by 2015 :)
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
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