The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

*checks around for hidden camera*

fannyanna

Thanks for the input re: HSG after pains.

They seem to have gone today so that's good :-)

Primmer

Hi tealover I am doing ok. I am off to an adoption evening with a voluntary agency to find out more info in the hope that they may be interested in us even if the local authority wasn't.

I don't post much at moment but do still come on to see how you are all getting on x

Whattodonow

Hugs Littleme, that's a shock to get your head round

SewIt wrote: »

On littleMe's point, does anyone get sad about the possibility of only having one child? I always imagined that we'd have two or three, very slim chance of that now! I think I'm struggling to come to terms with this too? anyone else? (even though I would be over the moon right now to just have one!!!)

xxxx

Yes I am gutted. I always wanted three kids. I regret not trying at a younger age. Very niave to think everything would be fine and I'd pop em out (I even planned what month I would get pregnant when this all started - how stupid). However like you, one will now be a miracle I'd be very grateful for!

danielley wrote: »

I fantasise that we will have twins and job done - 2 kids in one go!

Although I have been told (by a friend) that with IVF they will only put one fertilised egg in ... but I still hope

Yes, at Liverpool women's they only put one back if you're under 40. There was some info in the pack saying majority of multiple pregnancies have problems. Was a bit gutted about this but it makes sense.

YAY PARTMOUSE! FINALLY!

cwtw

Sorry about your news little me, but I guess at least the specialist has given you a really clear idea about where you're up to, and possible next steps.

Come on Part Mouses eggs.... You've nearly laid one!!,

Off for my HSG tomorrow, nervous but pleased to have it done and know what's going on with my tubes.

fluffnutter

codemonkey wrote: »

Fab news PM. Release the egg.

He's not going to be much use, is he? No billy ball-bag at all.

Part_Mouse

Cwtw wishing you well for tommrow.

Need to stop worrying the follie will go again, its 15 mm surely it's big enough to make it?

codemonkey

fluffnutter wrote: »

He's not going to be much use, is he? No billy ball-bag at all.

I'd hope not!! That's tea lover cheering on the eggs.

lisawood78

Come on Part Mouse, flipping heck it's taking its time!
Well perfection can't be rushed, right?
Optimism!! X

Part_Mouse

lisawood78 wrote: »

Come on Part Mouse, flipping heck it's taking its time!
Well perfection can't be rushed, right?
Optimism!! X

I'm still staggered its taken so long to get one follie, I really thought it was all over 2 weeks ago when I lost my lining but it seems to have really turned around:D no pity party for me.