Two plus two equals five (I hope)

Jox

I was reading some erotic fiction on my phone while bored on holiday in May and it lead to me "seducing" my husband quite a few times when usually I wouldn't be so rampant...then I got pregnant

bagpussbear

Suddenly becoming much more sexual can be a sign of having an affair apparently, and given what she is doing with her phone, again all of a sudden, would certainly worry me.

But there are a couple of other reasons.

Could it be she has realised she has neglected you s*xually, that you've got in a rut and is doing her best to put the sparkle back into your relationship?

She could have also discovered !!!!!! online (presuming she has internet access on her phone?) and its making her quite interested in the physical side of things again.

Could be the two are actually connected - she is looking at !!!!!! in order to reignite her passion for you in the bedroom?

I do think you need to really ask her, why the sudden interest!

split_second

maybe she feels guilty and has sought advice from a friend and the only way she can communicate is by text?

i'm the total opposite when it comes to my phone, it it goes off and i'm busy i ask my missus to reply to them for me lol, always seems to go off if i am driving, washing up or got my hand in the fishtank lol

daisiegg

bagpussbear wrote: »

Suddenly becoming much more sexual can be a sign of having an affair apparently, and given what she is doing with her phone, again all of a sudden, would certainly worry me.

But there are a couple of other reasons.

Could it be she has realised she has neglected you s*xually, that you've got in a rut and is doing her best to put the sparkle back into your relationship?

She could have also discovered !!!!!! online (presuming she has internet access on her phone?) and its making her quite interested in the physical side of things again.

Could be the two are actually connected - she is looking at !!!!!! in order to reignite her passion for you in the bedroom?

I do think you need to really ask her, why the sudden interest!

Why did you star sexually but not !!!!!!?

bylromarha

Don't immediately jump to the "She's having an affair"

Personally sounds like she's made a decision things need to improve in the bedroom, she's trying to make things a little better by getting some stimulus (!!!!!!/erotic fiction) and using it to try to get reconnected. She's probably hiding it as she's a mite embarrassed, wants you to think it's coming all from her and doesn't want you checking her internet history/kindle app.

A girls sex life has to happen in their head before they act upon it - OH has learnt over the years that my head is my primary sexual organ.

Go with it and, after a sess, tell her how amazing such and such was that she did and how much you loved it. Build her confidence up so her head is buzzing with positivity and she's turn to the phone less and you more.

Enjoy - literally!

bagpussbear

daisiegg wrote: »

Why did you star sexually but not !!!!!!?

I thought the filters might block the sex word, but it didn't occur to me to star the !!!!!! one as well, lol!

daisiegg

bagpussbear wrote: »

I thought the filters might block the sex word, but it didn't occur to me to star the !!!!!! one as well, lol!

It just made me laugh - it implied (though I know you didn't mean it) that sex is dirty but !!!!!! is not! :rotfl:

Errata

deary me, it sounds like the poor woman is in the wrong when she doesn't and in the wrong when she does.

bagpussbear

daisiegg wrote: »

It just made me laugh - it implied (though I know you didn't mean it) that sex is dirty but !!!!!! is not! :rotfl:

hee hee, well glad I brought a smile to someone's face today :rotfl:

thehappybutterfly

Whilst it doesn't sound good with the phone hogging etc, I have a suggestion about the sudden changes in technique. My hubby got the snip about a year ago and I no longer use any other form of contraception and its been like a weight has been lifted. My depression lifted (i swear the implanon has a lot to answer for!) and I generally feel 'free-er'. As a result Im more relaxed in the bedroom and keen to try some new moves. I appear to have developed a particular, ahem, move that hubby is delighted with! I didnt "learn" it from anything or anyone, it just happened and i wondered after the first tome "hmm, why havent i done that before?"

So it might not be anything to get upset about. Just appreciate it for what it is - if she was doing the same thing over and over you'd get bored. least shes doing it with you. Personally if i was having an affair i wouldnt go anywhere near my husband in case he sensed something.