First date- who pay's?

lics

esuhl wrote: »

If the woman expected me to pay... [...] fully intended to "pay me back" in the bedroom later ;-) Fair's fair!

So if you offer and she does accept, do you also assume automatically she wants to sleep with you?

Lotus-eater

lics wrote: »

So if you offer and she does accept, do you also assume automatically she wants to sleep with you?

A BJ would probably do, she doesn't have to stay the entire night :rotfl:

lics

Lotus-eater wrote: »

A BJ would probably do, she doesn't have to stay the entire night :rotfl:

No wonder why so many people are single these days

Lotus-eater

lics wrote: »

No wonder why so many people are single these days

Dunno, I'm married, anything I say is purely imagination

Jox

Be careful he doesn't run off with your phone...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2411733/Man-stole-online-date-s-mobile-phone-refused-buy-round-drinks-expensive-central-London-bar.html

Gloomendoom

You ask, you pay.

LandyAndy

Well if I asked I'd expect to pay.

But

I wouldn't expect to have to ask forever.

OliveOil

Yes, whoever asks, pays It would be rude not to

FBaby

sulphate wrote: »

I think it is a seriously outdated view that men should be expected to pay for a first date nowadays. We (women) can't expect to be equal in every other area of life and then expect not to get our purses out when we go on a date.

Why assuming it is expected? It's not because you accept something and are grateful for it that you expect it. My friends often invite each other for meals rather than going half. I find that both inviting others and being invited is a nice feeling that makes you feel good.

My OH pay for our first date, yet almost 5 years later, about to be married, we have separate accounts and are both independent. We still 'invite' each other for dinner and it is lovely. We don't keep track of who pays for what, he has probably paid for a few more meals, but then I spend more on him for his birthday and Christmas presents.

Although I never expected a date to pay everything for me, it is a nice sign of that person generosity and to me, that already set a nice tone for the future.

Delree

Girls out for a free ride left right and centre. It's 50/50 and if the girl gives any resistance she's a user.