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Newly Ex husband on steriods!

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  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    Does anyone know tht if he gets the house sorted if me n the boys can live in it and he has to pay so e of the mortgage and csa? We are in a flat the boys need a garden nd tbh the mortgage is £400 a month private renting would be around £550 a mth around here

    Why would he have to pay some of your mortgage?

    Your kids may need a garden but you are going to move them and pay £150 a month more and go into private renting when you'll have less security

    Or you want to move back into the house you had when you were married

    I actually think if you want advice on the specifics, start a different thread and as people have already said, get legal advice before you make decisions
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
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    paulineb wrote: »
    Why would he have to pay some of your mortgage?

    Your kids may need a garden but you are going to move them and pay £150 a month more and go into private renting when you'll have less security
    The OP is in a privately rented flat, the house was recently bought and her OH is 'doing it up' the OP has never lived in it.
    Or you want to move back into the house you had when you were married
    The OP is still married

    I actually think if you want advice on the specifics, start a different thread and as people have already said, get legal advice before you make decisions
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  • No the flat is council
    Ds2 born 3/4/12 8lbs 8.5:j
    Ds1 born 28/4/07 9lb 8 :j
    Frugal, thrifty, tight mum & wife and proud of it lol
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