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This Time I'm Really Going To Do It
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The first of many wins @Watty1! The tide is turning love Humdinger xx3
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Well done you! On the sleep and the food too - tasty but plain, and good quality (as well as quick to prepare!), is obviously the way to go, rather than ready to eat. So good to hear you managed to get in contact with a decent human being with the water people and he sorted it, after **thinking** - excellent.2023: the year I get to buy a car3
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That may appear to only be a small win, but in the context of the ex and what you have been going through, in reality it is a big win. Add that to the council tax, and you are really hitting him mentally
Keep going with the sleep and healthy eating, and I hope it will keep you feeling better.
Credit card debt - NIL
Home improvement secured loans 30,130/41,000 and 23,156/28,000 End 2027 and 2029
Mortgage 64,513/100,000 End Nov 2035
2022 all rolling into new mortgage + extra to finish house. 125,000 End 20365 -
I hope you remembered to suggest they bill ex via his solicitor's address as that way they can be certain he receives it (and any resultant summons will certainly be passed on...)Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
My new diary is here2 -
ouch I did not. But I will file that away as i am sure that this will not be done!
Gorgeous day. The vet has just been and my charming cob has recovered enough from surgery to be allowed out with his pals. Just so happy!Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became
In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!7 -
It sounds like you are winning the war, it takes a lot of energy dealing with all this stuff especially when it all just reminds you of the annoying ex. So very impressed you knocking these skittles over one by one..
Suffolk_lass said:I hope you remembered to suggest they bill ex via his solicitor's address as that way they can be certain he receives it (and any resultant summons will certainly be passed on...)DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff. Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest3 -
Great news that the cob can go out with the others again, I bet he will be as delighted as you areCredit card debt - NIL
Home improvement secured loans 30,130/41,000 and 23,156/28,000 End 2027 and 2029
Mortgage 64,513/100,000 End Nov 2035
2022 all rolling into new mortgage + extra to finish house. 125,000 End 20363 -
LadyWithAPlan said:It sounds like you are winning the war, it takes a lot of energy dealing with all this stuff especially when it all just reminds you of the annoying ex. So very impressed you knocking these skittles over one by one..
Suffolk_lass said:I hope you remembered to suggest they bill ex via his solicitor's address as that way they can be certain he receives it (and any resultant summons will certainly be passed on...)Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
My new diary is here5 -
Vindictive? Or are you channelling Nemesis perhaps. She is a badly needed figure love Humdinger xx5
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Suffolk_lass said:LadyWithAPlan said:It sounds like you are winning the war, it takes a lot of energy dealing with all this stuff especially when it all just reminds you of the annoying ex. So very impressed you knocking these skittles over one by one..
Suffolk_lass said:I hope you remembered to suggest they bill ex via his solicitor's address as that way they can be certain he receives it (and any resultant summons will certainly be passed on...)Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became
In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!3
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