Would You be Upset if Your Partner Watched !!!!!!?

Pennysmakepounds

I can't see a real issue with it TBH......rather that then going out and having an affair.....This seems the lessor of the 2 evils...:)

Besides...over time we get bored with the same person...day in day out......and need a little 'Visual Aid' to get us going again.....lol

lostinrates

Treevo wrote: »

I think that rather depends on who you believe. Do you think Linda Lovelace would have been as 'outraged' (for want of a better word) if she had shared in the financial successes over the years? I don't. I think she's angry that she did something that made her infamous and when the money ran out for her, but kept pouring in for the others involved, she became angry and decided to try and stop them from profiting.

I think there is probably a strong financial element in there, you are right, but there often is in all sorts of manipulation.

I also think her 'conflict' over the situation is one that many people might fall into....one people I know personally have been subject to. Are they innocent, blameless victims ...no, not entirely, that doesn't mean that the industry ( like many other less 'conflicted' appearing ones) isn't blameless, and free of issue ( ahem:D) either.

Tbh, I don't really have a tremendously fixed moral stance on most !!!!!!, but I do take the same loins of issue with people not being allowed to make this sexual or moral choice of being !!!!!! free with out harassment and ridicule as I would about people being able to make other sexual choices or express their other legal sexual preferences and sexualities. Its their right to do so.

bananapop

I would be bothered, but more because I can't understand the appeal over anything else. It does absolutely nothing for me, and quite frankly I have more important things to do with my time.

Gloomendoom

bananapop wrote: »

I would be bothered, but more because I can't understand the appeal over anything else. It does absolutely nothing for me, and quite frankly I have more important things to do with my time.

I have the same feelings about football.

MrsDrink

cakeforbrains wrote: »

I have a friend whose husband watches !!!!!!. It's kind of babestation type stuff, but it upsets her because she feels like he fancies those kind of women and not her (she's quite large).

Depends. If MrD was choosing !!!!!! over sexual encounters with me on a long term regular basis then yes I would be very upset. But if it doesn't detract from sex with me (or actually improves it) and it's just part and parcel of his sex drive/our sex lives/being normal sexual beings then nope I don't see anything wrong with it. Pretty much in the same way that women read the likes of FSOG.

(And I'm talking about no-involvement !!!!!!. Anything where there is communication is off limits in my book).

bananapop

Gloomendoom wrote: »

I have the same feelings about football.

And me actually! Rather glad that my bf is more into tech stuff!

tea_lover

The last football match I was made to watch had more rolling round and moaning in it than most !!!!!!. I know which I'd rather watch anyday

lostinrates

rozmister wrote: »

Couldn't agree more about the distorted ideas it places in men's minds sometimes!

I once had an ex boyfriend who was quite a big fan of blue movies who one day seemed to confuse what we were doing together in the bedroom with actual !!!!!! and popped a finger where it shouldn't stray (for me I'm sure other people are fine with it) without asking me first or even hinting what was about to happen. I think I was meant to be pleased and moan but I wasn't impressed so instead to teach him a lesson I popped two in the same place on him...he never did it to me again. I now repeat this story to male friends where I hear them making particularly degrading comments about women just to make them aware of the possibility that two can play at that game.

Hmm.....a lot of guys would have liked that.

cookie_monster

No, I'll be glad if she did . lol