Would You be Upset if Your Partner Watched !!!!!!?

rozmister

Any wrote: »

I think because they were not brought up to think about it, it was tabu subject in their own family and so on...
And so it doesn't transpire until later on, that actually !!!!!! exists and shock horror, OH might be of a bit less conservative mind..

But if one thinks that people watch !!!!!! because they don't fancy ME, the person they live with and have a life with, sometimes children with, bring a wage to etc, then it is a sign of insecurity on such a level that it neeeds professional help.

Sex was a taboo subject in my family but I've grown up pretty well rounded about it anyway. Whilst I wouldn't discuss !!!!!! with someone on a first date I doubt I'd end up married to someone and unaware they like to indulge in some fantasy with !!!!!!.

On a more general note I've got no problem with a partner watching !!!!!! as long as

a) it stays a fantasy, what those girls and men are prepared to do for money are not always things I'm prepared to do for money or love!!

b) it is additional to sex between me and my partner - I'm not prepared to go without while he fapps away over Georgina from Southend!!

c) it doesn't get in the way of a happy full life, it's all very well having a !!!! or two over !!!!!! but if you're missing out on getting outside and living life to live in a fantasy world it's not good!

Any

trolleyrun wrote: »

For me, it really depends on the situation. A few of my experiences:

One ex treated me in bed as if we were in a !!!!!! film, calling me names etc, which I didn't like but he kept doing it. He had no similarities at ALL with a !!!!!! star if you get my drift).

Another gave me his (very dodgy) !!!!!! collection when he moved countries. This included a home made version he filmed with his previous gf.

Another one had an obsession with a "model" who had "accidentally" made some home movies and he kept searching online for pictures and films of her. Every day.

These three got dumped for a variety of reasons, but the !!!!!! issues didnt help. If there's no secrecy, not 1-2-1, costs money, underage, really violent/fetish-like or "replaces" me, then I have no issues with it.

Having said all that, I'm so glad I'm single :rotfl:

No kidding, with your luck with men!!
Where do you find them??:rotfl:

Any

bitemebankers wrote: »

I have, but I didn't quite believe they were real...

I knew some!! And I am fairly young!!
All depends who you are surrounded by and how easily you communicate with the outside world (ie very shy pupils don't get to hang out with the experienced crowd, homeschooling etc)

aileth

rozmister wrote: »

I'm not prepared to go without while he fapps away over Georgina from Southend!!

Hahahahaha that made me spit my coffee over my keyboard!!!

I think another problem with some fellas who grow up BIG on !!!!!! is that their view of women is twisted, maybe men who don't have sex till their mid 20's or 30's and have heavily used !!!!!!, so they expect their woman to scream like they're being murdered, move about on them like they're having a fit, be completely hairless, and to take it in every orifice without disagreement. Unfortunately for these kind of men !!!!!! has horrifically distorted their view of reality, and it's even more unfortunate for the women who come across them.

tea_lover

aileth wrote: »

it's even more unfortunate for the women who come across them.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

BugglyB

I don't care, its up to him.

We have a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy

rozmister

aileth wrote: »

Hahahahaha that made me spit my coffee over my keyboard!!!

I think another problem with some fellas who grow up BIG on !!!!!! is that their view of women is twisted, maybe men who don't have sex till their mid 20's or 30's and have heavily used !!!!!!, so they expect their woman to scream like they're being murdered, move about on them like they're having a fit, be completely hairless, and to take it in every orifice without disagreement. Unfortunately for these kind of men !!!!!! has horrifically distorted their view of reality, and it's even more unfortunate for the women who come across them.

Couldn't agree more about the distorted ideas it places in men's minds sometimes!

I once had an ex boyfriend who was quite a big fan of blue movies who one day seemed to confuse what we were doing together in the bedroom with actual !!!!!! and popped a finger where it shouldn't stray (for me I'm sure other people are fine with it) without asking me first or even hinting what was about to happen. I think I was meant to be pleased and moan but I wasn't impressed so instead to teach him a lesson I popped two in the same place on him...he never did it to me again. I now repeat this story to male friends where I hear them making particularly degrading comments about women just to make them aware of the possibility that two can play at that game.

aileth

rozmister wrote: »

Couldn't agree more about the distorted ideas it places in men's minds sometimes!

I once had an ex boyfriend who was quite a big fan of blue movies who one day seemed to confuse what we were doing together in the bedroom with actual !!!!!! and popped a finger where it shouldn't stray (for me I'm sure other people are fine with it) without asking me first or even hinting what was about to happen. I think I was meant to be pleased and moan but I wasn't impressed so instead to teach him a lesson I popped two in the same place on him...he never did it to me again. I now repeat this story to male friends where I hear them making particularly degrading comments about women just to make them aware of the possibility that two can play at that game.

Hahahahahaha!!! I don't think I would've had the forethought to do it back to him, I think my leg would've come up on reflex and impaired his chances of breeding.

Treevo

Of course I wouldn't be upset! Why would anyone?

Erinnire

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I also am not bothered if sometimes that is the preferential choice over being "together" there are times where I just want to be on my own for want of a better word and im sure it is the same for blokes.

The only things I would be miffed about is paying for it, purely from a financial sense and 1 on 1 would make me uncomfortable.