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Would You be Upset if Your Partner Watched !!!!!!?

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  • System
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    Would You be Upset if Your Partner Watched !!!!!!?

    Most definitely.:)
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  • Don't care unless he's stupid enough to pay for it tbh, or he's doing it as a replacement for having a sex life with me.
  • Don't care unless he's stupid enough to pay for it tbh, or he's doing it as a replacement for having a sex life with me.

    What do you mean by this second bit? Would it be ok for him to do it if you weren't able to be together, but not ok if you were?
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    I have no problem at all with my OH watching or reading !!!!!!.
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  • aileth
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    What do you mean by this second bit? Would it be ok for him to do it if you weren't able to be together, but not ok if you were?

    I take that as, say if he was away on business, that's fine because he's not replacing anything with her. If he's at home, she makes the moves, "No darling I want to watch some !!!!!! not have sex", then that'd be a huge no-no!
  • bitemebankers
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    Any wrote: »
    Quite frankly in my opinion if ones issue with !!!!!! is to do with "he fancies her more" rather then the industry, then you need a therapy with your own issues.

    Exactly.

    What really gets me though, is this: do people not discuss attitudes to sex and !!!!!! and so on, before they get serious with someone? If not, why not?
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  • 2010 wrote: »
    Also the women probably watch more than the men.

    Do you reckon?
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  • Any
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    Exactly.

    What really gets me though, is this: do people not discuss attitudes to sex and !!!!!! and so on, before they get serious with someone? If not, why not?

    I think because they were not brought up to think about it, it was tabu subject in their own family and so on...
    And so it doesn't transpire until later on, that actually !!!!!! exists and shock horror, OH might be of a bit less conservative mind..

    But if one thinks that people watch !!!!!! because they don't fancy ME, the person they live with and have a life with, sometimes children with, bring a wage to etc, then it is a sign of insecurity on such a level that it neeeds professional help.
  • Judi wrote: »
    Most definitely.:)

    In all circumstances? Why?
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  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Exactly.

    What really gets me though, is this: do people not discuss attitudes to sex and !!!!!! and so on, before they get serious with someone? If not, why not?

    Well, I don't know if I'm weird, but in the initial stages of seeing each other, aka lust central, I'd have thought these things would be discussed? Sex, !!!!!!, pushing buttons etc. My OH asked if I would watch !!!!!! together, I said it's not really my thing and it's never been mentioned again in almost five years, that suits me!
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