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Can you wear black to a wedding?

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  • Battleaxe44
    Battleaxe44 Posts: 607 Forumite
    edited 17 August 2013 at 4:40PM
    Aliasojo, please post a photgraph of your new dress, not necessarily you in it, just the dress....

    Enjoy the wedding

    Soft hugs
  • jellyhead
    jellyhead Posts: 21,555 Forumite
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    aliasojo wrote: »
    I like them. :D All colours.

    I looked at them in Clarks when I was in.

    I wouldn't wear them for anything other than casual though. Definitely would with jeans. :D

    Yes, I'd only wear them with jeans. The playground mum whose shoes I always admire wears them with jeans or trousers.

    Did you find some shoes for the dress?
    52% tight
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    aliasojo wrote: »
    I think I've cracked the weight loss secret!

    Attend weddings. Regularly.

    I've lost half a stone this week and I haven't eaten any differently. It's solely down to all the running around I've been doing.

    If I could find a wedding to go to...say ...once a month, I'd be thin by Xmas. :rotfl:

    Clearly an indication I need to move more. :o:D

    Move to Gretna and become a professional wedding witness?
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    I think black is fine to wear to a wedding, especially if it is jazzed up with some bright accessories

    The only colour that I really do think is unacceptable is white, especially white lacy dresses, on female wedding guests.
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,572 Forumite
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    As someone who got married yesterday, and who wore a very untraditional dress, I would have been a little offended if anyone had worn black.

    Black is for funerals and NOT for weddings!
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    pinkshoes wrote: »
    As someone who got married yesterday, and who wore a very untraditional dress, I would have been a little offended if anyone had worn black.

    Black is for funerals and NOT for weddings!

    Would you? Really? I think that I have been to many weddings where guests have worn cream and black, black and white, pink and black etc. It is a base colour to be dressed with an accent colour imo.

    And....Congratulations, I hope you had a great day, but, shouldn't you still be in bed?;):rotfl:
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,572 Forumite
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    poet123 wrote: »
    Would you? Really? I think that I have been to many weddings where guests have worn cream and black, black and white, pink and black etc. It is a base colour to be dressed with an accent colour imo.

    And....Congratulations, I hope you had a great day, but, shouldn't you still be in bed?;):rotfl:

    Black as a second colour would be ok, but just not all or predominantly black!

    Bed?? We have a toddler and a puppy - we consider 7am a luxury!
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • kelfen
    kelfen Posts: 281 Forumite
    Getting married Tuesday - eeeee - our colours ARE red and black. I've got a red dress and red shoes and will be carrying a posy of red roses. HWMNBO is wearing black with a red tie.
    * Jan NSD *
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    *Weight Loss: I was: 210lbs ...NOW: 196 lbs *
  • candygirl
    candygirl Posts: 29,455 Forumite
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    I wore a black suit for my first wedding, back when I was a punk:rotfl::rotfl:, and also a black dress and jacket with silver accessories for my Daughter's wedding in March:DBoth looked great.My bugbear is guests who wear white to weddings;)
    "You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"

    (Kabat-Zinn 2004):D:D:D
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    pinkshoes wrote: »
    As someone who got married yesterday, and who wore a very untraditional dress, I would have been a little offended if anyone had worn black.

    Black is for funerals and NOT for weddings!

    People have different views about how to dress for events.

    I wouldn't take offence at someone's choice unless I knew it had been done with the intention of upsetting me.
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