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Issues with DH (again)
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Oddly enough another friend (SAHM with a just turned 3 year old) started talking about how hard she was finding things on Tuesday, and my other friend (SAHM with an almost 3 year old (nursery 2 full days) and a 1 year old) said the same. They both have husbands who get home by 6pm and relatively few money worries. Made me realise there is something about almost/3 year olds that sap energy. Perhaps it's a cumulative effect, I don't know. But it was nice that we could all share our feelings without being judged.
I am far from a perfectionist in all matters child and home, so I don't *think* it's that that's causing the issues.Trying to be a man is a waste of a woman0 -
Are you feeling any better OP?Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.0
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Just let him sulk.
My OH is driving me crazy. he's confrontational, thinks everyone hates him and is aggressive with people for no reason, and won't discuss anything without throwing his toys out of the pram.
He accuses me of criticising him all the time but not one but 5!!! Of his friends have independently told me they feel he can be very aggressive and nasty to people at times. I didn't even ask, they brought it up themselves.
I'm *this* close to just giving up. I know what I should do in theory, tell him it's not working and end it, but he's just moved to another city because eventually I would like to move there but my job doesn't end for a year where we currently live. (By the way I told his categorically not to take the job if he didnt want it for himself)“I want to be a glow worm, A glow worm's never glum'Coz how can you be grumpy, when the sun shines out your bum?" ~ Dr A. TappingI'm finding my way back to sanity again... but I don't really know what I'm gonna do when I get there~ LifehouseWhat’s fur ye will make go by ye… but also what’s not fur ye, ye can jist scroll on by!0 -
Are you feeling any better OP?
Sorry, I missed this.
I'm coping. Having blood tests tomorrow and the patches don't seem to have grown over the last week, so that's something. Had a nice week away doing things with DD, DH and other members of my family.
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notanewuser wrote: »Sorry, I missed this.
I'm coping. Having blood tests tomorrow and the patches don't seem to have grown over the last week, so that's something. Had a nice week away doing things with DD, DH and other members of my family.
Glad you enjoyed your week away Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.0
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