Am i getting enough?????

justme111

ilovelondontown wrote: »

If one thinks sex will solve all problems then one is sadly mistaken.

You seem to be talking to someone else while quoting my posts. Where have I said sex solves all the problem ?

Pauline , of course it works if there are no other options

Asexuals - don't know about those , no idea. I guess if those exist than that's fine although why do they need to have.relationships , they might just live in a houseshare .

lostinrates

justme111 wrote: »

You seem to be talking to someone else while quoting my posts. Where have I said sex solves all the problem ?

Pauline , of course it works if there are no other options

Asexuals - don't know about those , no idea. I guess if those exist than that's fine although why do they need to have.relationships , they might just live in a houseshare .

Because a house share doesn't meet the other aspects of a longterm relationship. That this might not be recognised just goes to show how underestimated the importance of aspects other than sex and genetic company are in a long term relationship, ( asexual or otherwise!)

justme111

lostinrates wrote: »

Because a house share doesn't meet the other aspects of a longterm relationship. That this might not be recognised just goes to show how underestimated the importance of aspects other than sex and genetic company are in a long term relationship, ( asexual or otherwise!)

Was half joking.
I know , I know - emotional closeness , skin contact, financial interdependence , activity company , partners in kids upbringing etc etc.

bylromarha

justme111 wrote: »

I believe it is all politcorrect rubbish about "whatever suits you is fine ". I never seen and can not imagine a happy couple who would have.it twice a year. Something is wrong if it is less than once a week. Because if it is it means either one of them.or both don't fancy each other any more. We have.only one life and.living it with person who dies not fancy you/ you don't fancy is a waste.

How do you equate having sex 1 time in 7 days to a happy relationship? And sex 1 time in 8 days that 2 people don't fancy each other any more and something must be wrong?:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Happy couples who have been together for over 10 years know there is far more to a relationship than sex.

an9i77

The hot weather thing was true for me! Now we're back to normal weather it's gone down to our usual once a week if we're lucky prob more like once every two. We do have a toddler and I am 7 months pregnant though.

bitemebankers

Torry_Quine wrote: »

That's total rubbish! :mad:

We can go many months without and that doesn't mean we're with people we don't fancy anymore. A relationship is far more than sex.

It's true, a relationship is about more than sex. However, without sex, it isn't a relationship at all, it's merely a friendship. Sex is pretty damn important.

paulineb_2

justme111 wrote: »

You seem to be talking to someone else while quoting my posts. Where have I said sex solves all the problem ?

Pauline , of course it works if there are no other options

Asexuals - don't know about those , no idea. I guess if those exist than that's fine although why do they need to have.relationships , they might just live in a houseshare .

Oh I had other options, just none I wanted to take up:)

VitaK

bitemebankers wrote: »

It's true, a relationship is about more than sex. However, without sex, it isn't a relationship at all, it's merely a friendship. Sex is pretty damn important.

It is as important as you make it out to be. To some its a deal breaker, to others just one of those curveballs life throws at you.

shoppaholic_returns

I agree that sex is very important too. Having been in a marriage where I was really not interested in it, and now being in a marriage where if I don't have it I miss it. I for one certainly recognise that as a couple you have go to have a certain amount of desire for each other amongst other things. Friendship alone in my opinion is not enough.

Torry_Quine

bitemebankers wrote: »

It's true, a relationship is about more than sex. However, without sex, it isn't a relationship at all, it's merely a friendship. Sex is pretty damn important.

For some couples sex is important, not all.

Of course it's a relationship without sex.