Am i getting enough?????

ilikepinacolada

Ok a quick question and I know everyone is different but me and OH late 30's been in relationship 8 years and have nuptials approx twice a month at the moment and mostly it is first thing in the morning, hmm not a lot I know but I wondered what is average and is morning more common than night time routine? Both working full time and no kids just us so what's our excuse?

Torry_Quine

There is no such thing as 'average' but only what suits both of you. there is only any problem if one or both of you aren't happy with what is happening now.

ilovelondontown

I get about the same as you and occasionally I get a bit bothered about if it's "enough" or not, so we make more effort and I start to feel like it's all overrated and we go back to the effort we naturally make.

Mostly it's because we're tired/too busy/not in the mood but it varies too some months more and some months less.

Ultimately the question shouldn't be if you're getting "enough" but it should be, are you happy with the amount you get?

Kynthia

I know some who are the same age and without children and they are less than monthly. Yet others feel bad if they don't keep up with their twice weekly average. If you're both happy then what's to worry about, and if you're not then get into a new habit of doing it more often.

fittodrop62

id say its all about quality not quantity

Pennysmakepounds

Hmmmmm….Interesting question!!!!!!
I have to admit when you first meet someone it’s all about the lust element and humping like bunnies.
Over time that fades but the question of ‘Average’ is based on individuals. Some like it more some not so much.
I’ve been with my partner for over 18 years and I still enjoy ‘IT’ and want it on a regular basis. 2 times a month is not average for us, but each to their own.
I think most women are happy with less, whereas men normally want it more.

fluffnutter

People still have sex. Wow, I thought it had been replaced by internet !!!!!! and the boxset of Breaking Bad.

Pennysmakepounds

fluffnutter wrote: »

People still have sex. Wow, I thought it had been replaced by internet !!!!!! and the boxset of Breaking Bad.

:rotfl::T:T:T

Nahhhhhhh….virtual is ok if you want to see a slim se*y girl with perfect lady bits getting a good seeing to and screaming......But nothing quite like being suffocated by a 16 stone girl…..lol

What am I saying……where’s my credit card…. :rotfl:

lostinrates

Pennysmakepounds wrote: »

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I think most women are happy with less, whereas men normally want it more.

Not sure about that.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Have you tried speaking to your OH about it?? He might be under stress or maybe there is some under lining issue?

Might be a early mid life crisis?!

Either way - there is no average. I know some people who are happy just to cuddle, i know others that you have to throw water at. Each to their own.

Failing that - Ann summers will have a sale at some point.......

Alias_Omega

4 out of 7, on average.