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Am i getting enough?????

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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    edited 30 July 2013 at 5:16PM
    I thought I posted this already?

    I would try something new to spice things up, it does not have to be a full Ann-Summers outfit, but it could be something simple like this.

    Durex Play-O

    (Tip - You don't put it on yourself :) & the bottle lasts for ages)

    Have fun,

    Mrs AO

    I'm confused by your post. :o. Do you mean you put it on your partner or you don't put it on yourself because your partner puts it on you which is part of the fun?

    (I'm not confused by the product which we tried but I hated it!)

    Actually your four out of seven confused me too, though I understood what it meant. BecAuse does each day only count as one opportunity no matter how many times in a day? :). E.g. DH and I are only together Friday night to Monday morning so we only have the opportunity for four out of seven, But Sunday alone blasted through that. (We didn't get anything else done this weekend).
  • Alias_Omega
    Alias_Omega Posts: 7,916 Forumite
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    ^^ Sometimes people read into things too much.

    Have a nice day,

    Mrs AO.
  • loulou123
    loulou123 Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    I'd say on average we do it 2 or 3 times a week, usually in evenings or in bed. We are both 33, no kids, married nearly 2 years, but been together since we were 17.

    Hot weather makes me more up for it, but hubbys the opposite.

    I have to admit we did it less when we started watching the breaking bad box set lol :rotfl:
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    ^^ Sometimes people read into things too much.

    Have a nice day,

    Mrs AO.

    What a shame! You posted a link to something which worked for you and which could help others. Because it didn't please us I couldn't say ' oh yes, we of d that too' because I hated it. But it might be great for some one here!

    I thought it was funny, and as mse's least clear poster find it funny when things aren't clear, my post was not intended to be critical and I apologise if I touched a nerve.
  • flutterby_lil
    flutterby_lil Posts: 1,879 Forumite
    ^ 7 days in a week.

    I understood....and I don't have common sense (allegedly)
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    Im going to start the sister thread, what the f**k is sex?
  • Alias_Omega
    Alias_Omega Posts: 7,916 Forumite
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    What a shame! You posted a link to something which worked for you and which could help others. Because it didn't please us I couldn't say ' oh yes, we of d that too' because I hated it. But it might be great for some one here!

    I thought it was funny, and as mse's least clear poster find it funny when things aren't clear, my post was not intended to be critical and I apologise if I touched a nerve.

    Tis okay. :)
  • justme111
    justme111 Posts: 3,531 Forumite
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    I believe it is all politcorrect rubbish about "whatever suits you is fine ". I never seen and can not imagine a happy couple who would have.it twice a year. Something is wrong if it is less than once a week. Because if it is it means either one of them.or both don't fancy each other any more. We have.only one life and.living it with person who dies not fancy you/ you don't fancy is a waste.
    The word "dilemma" comes from Greek where "di" means two and "lemma" means premise. Refers usually to difficult choice between two undesirable options.
    Often people seem to use this word mistakenly where "quandary" would fit better.
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    justme111 wrote: »
    I believe it is all politcorrect rubbish about "whatever suits you is fine ". I never seen and can not imagine a happy couple who would have.it twice a year. Something is wrong if it is less than once a week. Because if it is it means either one of them.or both don't fancy each other any more. We have.only one life and.living it with person who dies not fancy you/ you don't fancy is a waste.

    That's total rubbish! :mad:

    We can go many months without and that doesn't mean we're with people we don't fancy anymore. A relationship is far more than sex.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • justme111
    justme111 Posts: 3,531 Forumite
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    That's total rubbish! :mad:

    We can go many months without and that doesn't mean we're with people we don't fancy anymore. A relationship is far more than sex.

    I see. You may be sorting it the way husband of the woman who posted deleted thread done :D
    The word "dilemma" comes from Greek where "di" means two and "lemma" means premise. Refers usually to difficult choice between two undesirable options.
    Often people seem to use this word mistakenly where "quandary" would fit better.
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