Jealous friend has sabotaged hen weekend plans

yvonne13_2

Person_one wrote: »

Yes, there are a lot of plot holes here, its hard to know exactly what's really happened.

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

ValHaller

yvonne13 wrote: »

And do you have to use that type of uncalled for language on here?

You started it. You mentioned fr**nds in the first place

paulineb_2

yvonne13 wrote: »

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

So everyone has to miss out because her husband believes she shouldn't be away overnight?

claire16c

yvonne13 wrote: »

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

What belief in being lazy? Sounds like carp to me.

securityguy

yvonne13 wrote: »

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

Someone has been to villas abroad, and has suggested that villa as a place to hold a hen night, but also has a husband with strict religious views that means she can't go away for the night? Really?

Loz01

yvonne13 wrote: »

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

Fair enough if that's how they live their life but surely she would've thought of this before she agreed to go away? Why go along with it then spoil it for everyone if you know in your head you won't be able to go. She obv wanted to sabotage it for everyone.

Maybe I was jumping to conclusions about friend A, if she's a v considerate person and she did fork out £120 from her own bank. Does it seem like something she would do?

paulineb_2

Tell you something, if I was getting married and I had a mate who derailed my hen night to that extent, I wouldn't be tip toeing around her, Id be having my hen night where I wanted and a drink with them (assuming hubby allowed it!!!!!!) in my home town

Why was this woman ever invited in the first place if she has to be around to put her kids to bed?

I still cant make sense of this thread at all, if friend B is being such a !!!!!, then friend A should be told, regardless of whether it kicks off.

Do the rest of the friends know exactly whats been going on? Whats their view on all this?

Saint_Chris

yvonne13 wrote: »

We don't know what goes on behind closed doors and I don't want to speculate, but I do think her going home to put the children to bed is true. Her husband has very strict beliefs.

Has this just come to light, or was it known before the villa was booked.................because if it was known before the villa was booked then I would be going mad, because she should have never put her name down on the list to go.

And i'm surprised that she got her deposit back, we have booked loads of times through owners direct and all deposits are non refundable.

paulineb_2

Saint_Chris wrote: »

Has this just come to light, or was it known before the villa was booked.................because if it was known before the villa was booked then I would be going mad, because she should have never put her name down on the list to go.

And i'm surprised that she got her deposit back, we have booked loads of times through owners direct and all deposits are non refundable.

The bride has possibly refunded people herself

I still think some talking needs to be done. Id actually be wary of accepting a refund from the bride if she paid it. Why should she have to?

Its the person who caused all this mess who should be stumping up

Georgiegirl256

paulineb wrote: »

Tell you something, if I was getting married and I had a mate who derailed my hen night to that extent, I wouldn't be tip toeing around her, Id be having my hen night where I wanted and a drink with them (assuming hubby allowed it!!!!!!) in my home town

Why was this woman ever invited in the first place if she has to be around to put her kids to bed?

I still cant make sense of this thread at all, if friend B is being such a !!!!!, then friend A should be told, regardless of whether it kicks off.

Do the rest of the friends know exactly whats been going on? Whats their view on all this?

Same here, I would be hopping mad....I would have to say something. Friend A might be a really nice person, not wanting to upset anyone etc, but I can't believe anyone would be that much of a walkover, I really can't.