Breakup envolving a child.

Gigglepig

Well done for calming down a bit, hope things settle down.

marisco_2

Williamf1989 wrote: »

I just recieved a reply that she has not spoken to her yet, shes in nandos and will ring me when shes spoke to her, i asked if my daughter is still with her then because i could of see her today also.

As for fighting my corner i highly doubt it, ive always had the implication that she doesnt like me very much

This situation must be very upsetting for you. From what you have written on this thread, and the concern you have shown for your daughters welfare in the texts you sent the Aunt, you are clearly a devoted dad. It must be really hard to be away from your daughter and have such insecurity over how access will work in the coming days/weeks.

My comment about the Aunt speaking well of you and how maturely you are handling all this to your partner, was in the hopes that she may have decided to stay neutral and help a couple to work together for the best of their child.

One positive you have right now is that she has responded to you. Not in the manner you were hoping but at least you know she is not ignoring you or blocking contact. She has as far as she can let you know where things are at for the moment. My advice would be to reply thanking her for her response and that you look forward to hearing from her again soon. Yes I know, not easy to stay so calm and rational when you think you could have spent precious quality time with you daughter today, but patience and politeness could get you far in the long run.

Williamf1989

marisco wrote: »

This situation must be very upsetting for you. From what you have written on this thread, and the concern you have shown for your daughters welfare in the texts you sent the Aunt, you are clearly a devoted dad. It must be really hard to be away from your daughter and have such insecurity over how access will work in the coming days/weeks.

My comment about the Aunt speaking well of you and how maturely you are handling all this to your partner, was in the hopes that she may have decided to stay neutral and help a couple to work together for the best of their child.

One positive you have right now is that she has responded to you. Not in the manner you were hoping but at least you know she is not ignoring you or blocking contact. She has as far as she can let you know where things are at for the moment. My advice would be to reply thanking her for her response and that you look forward to hearing from her again soon. Yes I know, not easy to stay so calm and rational when you think you could have spent precious quality time with you daughter today, but patience and politeness could get you far in the long run.

All ready done, also just want to point out i know mt daughter will be looked after or have i misinterpreted what you meant?

marisco_2

Williamf1989 wrote: »

All ready done, also just want to point out i know mt daughter will be looked after or have i misinterpreted what you meant?

Sorry I didn't mean it to come across that your daughter isn't being looked after. Just that it will be far better for her if the outcome to all this, is that you either work things out with your partner, or manage to sort things out so as access to your daughter is not complicated and stressful as it is now.

Williamf1989

Good news guys, just got a message, her aunt has spoken to my Ex and told me she is going to contact me herself regarding plans for me to see my daughter.

marisco_2

Excellent news. That is a good step forward. Really pleased for you

Williamf1989

marisco wrote: »

Excellent news. That is a good step forward. Really pleased for you

Thanks, me 2. However i have no idea when