Breakup envolving a child.

Williamf1989

Also...

Basically, do they have the right to say to me i can only see her with her aunts supervision, without any court order or anything, can i turn around and say you have no right to do this?

Williamf1989

Gigglepig wrote: »

You are outraged? You just hacked her account!

you don't seem to take on board anything that people are posting, either.

I didnt hack it its autosign in

thorsoak

FOR THE LAST TIME - GET EXPERT ADVICE! It does your case no good whatsoever to keep returning here/looking at Facebook when you should be getting the legal position straight.

mummyroysof3

Firstly I think you need to act like the big person here and make sure everything you do is above board and can't be held against you. So calm down see your child and get some expert advice. If you take child they can't stop you but it doesn't look good and she can make you look very bad if she wants too. Take it step by step and take any visits you are offered and say nothing to wind her up. Then when things have settled down get it sorted properly

Gigglepig

Williamf1989 wrote: »

I didnt hack it its autosign in

Still a completely unacceptable intrusion of her privacy. You said it yourself you knew it was wrong.

You came on here asking for advice but don't seem to take any of it onboard, or reflect about yourself at all...

RAS

william

There ia a LOOOONG thread here about a couple where the father took the children repeatedly and refused the mother contact. He made a lot of allegations and at one stage mother was only allowed supervised contact by the courts. And then the court return the children to mother and the father takes them again.

After about 18 months the courts have returned the children to the mother permanently and the father is only allowed every other weekend contact and if he refuses to return the children the police can collect them.

Your outrage achieve NOTHING.

You need proper legal advice.

But in the very short term, you have been offered contact at the aunts this weekend. Accept it and behave impeccably. That will help you in court.

Outrage will just damage your case.

MarilynMonroe_2

Firstly please delete her private message off a very well used public forum! You've just posted their names.

And secondly you need to go see a solicitor to set up regular access to your daughter, maybe at a contact centre where you don't have to face your ex at all.

How long had you been together,a nd was the baby planned? Are you in your teens, 20's, 30's?

Mojisola

MarilynMonroe wrote: »

Firstly please delete her private message off a very well used public forum! You've just posted their names.

And Gigglepig should delete the quote.

Williamf1989

MarilynMonroe wrote: »

Firstly please delete her private message off a very well used public forum! You've just posted their names.

And secondly you need to go see a solicitor to set up regular access to your daughter, maybe at a contact centre where you don't have to face your ex at all.

How long had you been together,a nd was the baby planned? Are you in your teens, 20's, 30's?

We were together 8 years and im 25 she is 23..

Williamf1989

Thanks for all your response guys.

I have recieved some legal advice.. he pretty much said that because i agreed to leave the home because she wanted me to that im now a nrp and have pretty much no rights.


Basically he told me i just have to visit her whenever i can, and hope access improves from supervised contact.

I had no idea the system was this unfair towards fathers and it is a great injustice.

Hopefully my partner will come around and realise she is being ott as there is no good reason to stop me seeing my child alone.