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Flat mate hogging the bloody washing machine!

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  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    Washing your own clothes with some stranger's? *shudders*

    Honestly, there's no need for notes, even faintly humourous ones, as that's far too passive-aggressive.

    A chat and if there are no results, just take his out, dump them in a laundry-basket and do your own.


    Stranger? They're flatmates, and when you wash stuff it all comes out clean anyway...
  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
    meritaten wrote: »
    Why not leave a polite note?

    Dear Flatmate
    I would like to book an appointment with the washing machine on XX/XX/XXXX. While I appreciate YOUR devotion to cleanliness, unfortunately mine is now sadly lacking as the machine is constantly in use while I am in residence.
    Please indicate in writing if this date and time are acceptable.
    yours
    The Dirty One

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    Flatmate, or lodger, you commented about putting the rent up

    I agree, a conversation is needed.
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    Hmm devious ways? Pour some beach in the drum..
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    Person_one wrote: »
    Stranger? They're flatmates, and when you wash stuff it all comes out clean anyway...

    Sounds like his stuff is going in clean. Still, I wouldn't want to wash my clothes with anyone else's unless I was on more intimate terms with them. Everyone else is entitled to feel differently.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    Sounds like his stuff is going in clean. Still, I wouldn't want to wash my clothes with anyone else's unless I was on more intimate terms with them. Everyone else is entitled to feel differently.

    Well, you can feel however you want, it doesn't really make any sense though! I bet you eat off plates that have been washed up in the same water as other people's plates, and the sheets in hotels or hospitals aren't single use. ;)
  • VitaK
    VitaK Posts: 651 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Stuff always seems to go missing when you wash together.
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    "Everyone else is entitled to feel differently".

    It doesn't matter whether it makes sense to you or not: it makes sense to me. Anyway, I daresay my own qualms and foibles aren't of any interest to anyone else on this thread, apart from me. And discussion of them is most certainly not going get the OP's laundry done.

    Pop down in the middle of the night and fill the machine while he's asleep, I say!
  • Sounds like his stuff is going in clean. Still, I wouldn't want to wash my clothes with anyone else's unless I was on more intimate terms with them. Everyone else is entitled to feel differently.

    I would agree with you 100% (including that it would be fine if I knew them intimately!) - I understand the points about its getting washed and so all coming out clean anyway, but I deffo wouldn't like my nice clothes having to go round with his hippy rags on an extended spin :rotfl: its more a privacy thing I think, than an 'eww his clothes have given mine clothes-aids!' thing.
  • ska_lover wrote: »
    Hmm devious ways? Pour some beach in the drum..

    I like your thinking! Pink dye would amuse me more than bleach though possibly :rotfl:
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