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  • Abbafan1972
    Abbafan1972 Posts: 7,172 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    !!!!!!! Another thread which has turned out to be totally pointless. The OP has asked for advice, people have given it, but she seems hell bent on defending the shifty partner.
    Striving to clear the mortgage before it finishes in Dec 2028 - amount currently owed - £24,616.09
  • Pixiechic
    Pixiechic Posts: 801 Forumite
    When is he actually planning on telling his family about your pregnancy?

    I don't have children but I am aware of the not telling anyone until after a certain amount of time. Are you 3 months pregnant?

    If he keeps wanting to wait to tell them I'd be upset, like your baby is a dirty little secret or something. Not very fair on you at all.

    Also, if your baby is going to be the first grandchild for both sides, then how does he know that his Mum will be a nightmare?
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