please delete

aileth

So what if you decide not to tell her, sil gets a massive conscience kick and tells your wife. Then what?

Troutwrestler

Have t read the whole thread, but I imagine its full of the usual excuses and feeling sorry for yourself.
Your wife and kids are the only people I feel sorry for. She deserves more than a slimy coward like you

Toomuchdebt

I was cheated on while I was pregnant and forgave him.He then cheated on me again 2 years later so we split up.I would rather be told and decide for myself whether I wanted the relationship to continue than to be living with a liar.

jellyhead

Is it just me, or does anyone else have an uncontrollable urge to read a thread when they see that the title has changed to 'delete'

fluffnutter

jellyhead wrote: »

Is it just me, or does anyone else have an uncontrollable urge to read a thread when they see that the title has changed to 'delete'

Always ..

tea_lover

jellyhead wrote: »

Is it just me, or does anyone else have an uncontrollable urge to read a thread when they see that the title has changed to 'delete'

Absolutely.... and usually at least 3 people have quoted the OP in full anyway so it's not like you even miss anything.

katrina001

Had I read this 2 years ago, I would've insisted that you tell your wife, that she deserves to know so she can decide where to go. Having gone through a marriage breakdown since then and seen a lot of relationships in a completely different light, I would say don't tell her. Nothing good will come of it, and especially as she has just had a baby. I dont know what is the right thing to do, but I know had I just given birth I definitely would not have wanted to hear that. Its a difficult one.