Would you tell?

System

If it happened to me i'd probably tell my bf and try and make a joke of it, though i would be worried he's feel paranoid/jealous slightly, he's always worried i'll get chatted up and stuff when i'm out and i'd worry i it was at work that would make him worry more as it might be too close to home (we're long distance). I have to admit it it was vice versa i'd feel a bit uncomfortable about them working with them a lot afterwards. But then i am pretty insecure

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Tropez wrote: »

That said, I can understand why you feel as you do, though I do think it is a shame. Even though I am sure we have had a disagreement or two, although over what specifically I cannot recall, you've always come across as an intelligent, kind-hearted and interesting individual. Silly as it may sound, I do hope that one day you regain the trust in yourself to trust someone else.

Awww, thank you!

coolcait wrote: »

The vast majority of men, in my experience (not always that kind of experience! ) are normal, decent human beings. And I'm not a girly girl - more of a tomboy - so I do know a lot of men.

One of the many reasons why I abhor men who abuse women is the fact that their actions tar all the normal, decent men with the same brush.

Me too. I have mostly male friends, due to the music malarkey (and because there's nobody to stop me having friends now ). According to one of them, who had a flash of inspiration whilst sitting in the pub and decided to share it with the group the only reason I am single is because I've not met The One so far and, when I do, everything will fall into place.

Makes perfect sense when you look at it that way, doesn't it?

Seanymph

I didn't once when I was young - because the propositioner was superior to my OH at work, and we all worked together - so I figured it would be really awkward for him with his 'boss'.

I would now with my OH though, because we are much much older and it wouldn't be an issue.

Patchwork_Girl

I would probably mention it - don't see any reason not to.

I'd find it a bit odd and pretty irritating if my partner felt the need to go and 'have a word' with the person in question though (this is not aimed at the OP but others who seem to think this is an appropriate thing to do). That strikes me as jealous and possesive behaviour and I wouldn't want to be with someone who reacted in that way.