Worst Dating Experience?

shelley_crow

Orlando_Virgin wrote: »

Did he salute you on your way out? haha:T

He didn't demonstrate any of his goose stepping, then again I didn't hang around very long!:rotfl:

Hezzawithkids

Tiglath wrote: »

I've just remembered my worst ever - kissing a guy and tasting another woman's undercarriage on his beard :eek:

Yuck!!!!! :eek::eek: Just spat tea all over my keyboard!

justme111

Orlando_Virgin wrote: »

I may have a bit of a dilemma on my hands here!:o

Can you please try and elaborate what is the dilemma. Why you feel guilty towards this woman. Is it that she is so good but you still don't feel it for her the way you think you should feel ?

DKLS

Gavin83 wrote: »

The best reaction to this would be to look at her with an extremely shocked face, and tell her the condoms aren't to prevent pregnancy but to prevent the transfer of disease as you have an STD of your choice. Tell her to get tested. I guarantee she'd never attempt it again.

I would have liked to have said something similar, but I dont think it would have stopped her, her womanly body clock thing was ticking like a bass line at a rave and she needed my little soldiers.

We had already had the "kids" conversation on the 2nd date, as I have never wanted children of my own and when dating thought it only correct that this was brought up early on, no point falling for me if thats what you do want.

Her response was "you will change your mind when you meet the right woman"

err no ta :eek:

At the time I was raving mad but with hindsight, finding a wife who doesn't want children and seeing some friends of ours go through the frankly horrific process of IVF my opinion of her has softened slightly.

There should be a dating site for Child free peeps.

Orlando_Virgin

justme111 wrote: »

Can you please try and elaborate what is the dilemma. Why you feel guilty towards this woman. Is it that she is so good but you still don't feel it for her the way you think you should feel ?

Well obviously I only split up with my ex-girlfriend just under 2 months ago, so I'm not completely over that or in the frame of mind for another relationship yet. I'm just a bit concerned that she might want more soon and I'll struggle to commit and just generally about the timing of it all.

Stephb1986_2

Tiglath wrote: »

I've just remembered my worst ever - kissing a guy and tasting another woman's undercarriage on his beard :eek:

Urghhhh, question is....how do you know? :eek:

justme111

I heard that already. I am trying to get to what you mean by it. Ie , "I am not in that frame of mind " = I do not want you despite you being faultless up to now ?.
I like to analyse things instead of using cliches and the topic has some personal relevance to me ..

Orlando_Virgin

justme111 wrote: »

I heard that already. I am trying to get to what you mean by it. Ie , "I am not in that frame of mind " = I do not want you despite you being faultless up to now ?.
I like to analyse things instead of using cliches and the topic has some personal relevance to me ..

What I mean is, I have just come through a very difficult, emotional experience where I put in a great deal of my heart and time and commitment to try to make it work with someone. I am still recovering for that not working and piecing my life back together.

I did not expect to connect with somebody else so soon but I can't seriously say I am completely over my ex or that experience and say I can commit to anything with the girl I have been dating. That doesn't mean I want to stop seeing her or anything like that, just difficult that's all. I hope this explains it better.

justme111

Why is so difficult to say "I don't really want her"...

Kayalana99

Orlando_Virgin wrote: »

What I mean is, I have just come through a very difficult, emotional experience where I put in a great deal of my heart and time and commitment to try to make it work with someone. I am still recovering for that not working and piecing my life back together.

I did not expect to connect with somebody else so soon but I can't seriously say I am completely over my ex or that experience and say I can commit to anything with the girl I have been dating. That doesn't mean I want to stop seeing her or anything like that, just difficult that's all. I hope this explains it better.

Thiers nothing worse (well maybe this thread has proved im wrong :rotfl:) then a guy who does nothing then talk about his ex gf... now personally it sounds like your not ready to date, but I've been thier....the guy I am with now I came out of a serouis relationship before hand and my OH came along and I took a chance because he seemed like a really decent guy..and it worked out.

But please bare in mind that if you keep talking about your ex to this girl she is most likey going to get upset and walk..it sounds to me that you've said to much already.

Take it slow with this girl, if your not ready to 'commit' yet just tell her that don't base it all on your ex...

Do what feels right for you, if she can't understand that then thats her problem.